Neutrals and I Need Your Help
Today I have an outfit that I love, plus I’d love to get your answers to a few questions. As much as I enjoy wearing color, neutrals have my heart. They’re timeless and easy to coordinate plus they’re less memorable than brighter colors which make them more versatile.
This faux suede moto jacket has been a best seller on AWSL for many months, with good reason. It comes in several flattering neutrals, it’s incredibly luxe and soft, and the price is amazing.
This fawn color coordinates with so many other colors. It feels as versatile as black…but a lot more flattering for many of us. It comes in sizes 00-18, I’m wearing a 6-8. Leather and faux moto jackets have a hard look to them, which I avoid, but this super soft, ultra-suede dials back the edginess because it lacks shine.
These are super-soft cords from Banana Republic which have a straight leg and high rise. I like the way the fuller leg helps add balance to my shape. I’m sure skinny pants will be back before we know it, but I’m not anxious to wear them anytime soon. How about you?
The surplice-wrap blouse has a shirt tail back you can wear out, or tuck in. It has a lightly draped front with a snap at the V which keeps it from gaping open, always a plus for me. The front is the perfect length to wear over your waistband which shows some waist definition but conceals your tummy. It comes in several patterns, regular and petite, sizes XXS-XXL. I am wearing a regular in small. The subtle lug sole combat style booties are from last year, similar here, and here, and here.
Now, here’s where I need your help-
Please feel free to answer in the comments, which I feel proud to say is a safe, nurturing environment for us to chat. If you’d like to be more private, simply respond to the email and tell me that way.
Why do you follow my blog? What it is about A Well Styled Life that you enjoy most? How does it differ from other blogs you follow?
Several of you have mentioned that you’ve given up reading other blogs, but continue to read mine. Why? I am honored, but I have never asked why and I would love to know.
I would love to know your fashion and lifestyle goals and how I might help you achieve them.
Could you also please share what country you’re from.
Thank you for being here and helping to make this community what it is.
xox
That’s a cute outfit on you! The neutral palette with the color from the blouse works great!
I shop primarily in resell shops. I like to read your blog to see how “I should” dress as a 60 year woman. Then I read fashion blogs by younger women to see what is current in the young world. From the combined information I purchase my wardrobe from resell shops paying close attention to popular name brands. This is definitely a process that probably doesn’t make sense to most!
I love this blog because it gives me ideas on how to buy a few classic trendy pieces to update my, mostly classic, wardrobe.
I only watch your blog, I prefer neutral colours, black and beige being two, but I like to add something for more color such as a scarf or necklace etc., I like straight legs, I like tunic tops, I lean toward similar styles as yourself , you are doing a wonderful job of ‘how to’ Thanks Jennifer…. BTW I live in Canada
Doris Casavant Morson
I read only yours and the “over 50” you share because i dont want to be sha kled to my phone. Ive always admired your style and your confidence and vulnerability when sharing personal information and videos of how you do your hair and makeup starting with a just out of the shower look. I do like almost everything you style but i dont enjoy shopping, and online shopping is never dependable fit wise. Most things you show are just too expensive for me but they give me great ideas and inspiration.
The posts from Walmart and Target were great but here in Maine i never seem to find any of those items but right now I’ll assume thats just a supply chain issue. Sometimes i wish i could just copy an entire look from head to foot. I love that you explore cruelty free skincare products. That means alot to me.
Every time i read your blog i feel more and more accepting of my age and body type.
Thank you!
Hi Jennifer, I read your blog because I like your style! I enjoy classic fashion and avoid trends; spending money on something I will only wear for one season does not appeal to me. Skin care is always of interest to me, especially reasonably priced products that offer good results. Thank you for sharing your talents with all of us.
Echoing the others that you honest and real. I like you style. You offer professional advice from years of experience in fashion. You have an open mind and try new things.
What good is Glamour or Vogue with all the super-trendy things on slim young models that I will never wear? I don’t have time to go to all the stores or order all the things that you do….it’s so informative to learn of all the discoveries and advice from all your research and experience.
I love the fun of re-styling mannequins, Would you Wear It, and Dressing Room Diaries. You see things I don’t see – or maybe I see them but cannot articulate them.
I love the reader’s comments section! For learning and entertainment.
It is often uncanny that you are facing a health challenge or body change and so am I! The same one (or similar)!!! And you have found a solution!
I have been told that I am a bit picky or particular about my clothes. I am ALWAYS relieved that you care about the same details – and so do many readers. I get that reassurance that it’s not just me!
I can google and read about stuff like anyone can, but I’d be reading one-offs that are anonymous. We’ve all gotten to know you, trust you and respect you tremendously.
Reading your blog and just a few others for several years has truly changed a part of me – I am more confident in how I curate my wardrobe and what I wear.
Thank you for everything!
I follow your blog because your choice of clothes reflect mine for most of the time.you give me new ideas to try out too. I find your writing is warm and honest and I feel like you have become a friend online. I am in Australia and so the seasons and the shopping don’t quite work but I can still use your ideas for my own wardrobe. I’d like to say ‘congratulations’ for getting it so right, well done Jennifer.
You keep it real. Although my style and colouring are different from yours, what I read here helps me dress for me. For instance, since I started following blogs like yours (I also follow Pamela Lutrell, Bridgette Raes, Debbie Roes and Imogen Lamport [and still read content from Brenda Kinsel]), I’ve begun incorporating more neutrals and quality basics in my outfits to achieve a more sophisticated look that still suits my need for a bit of fun and colour. Thank you so much! Pouting teen and 20-something boy-shaped models advertising trends in fashion shoots teach me nothing. You do!!! (The Netherlands)
I enjoy seeing many different clothing items similar to what I wear and how you style them. I appreciate that you don’t do a lot of makeup and hair product advertising. I really enjoy when you restyle the “would you wear it?” outfits.
Embarrassing-I should have clarifed in my comment that there is nothing wrong with dyeing one’s hair! (I did for 20+ years.) However, I have recently stopped & the change in my coloring has been challenging to adapt to, so I appreciate seeing similar hair tones on others.
Adapting to naturally gray/silver hair is a challenge I am dealing with now and will address in upcoming posts.Stay tuned:)
This isn’t a hard-sell “flog blog” & you appear to be one of the bloggers in my age range & who does not dye her hair (?).
I have followed several blogs/instagram posts for women over 50, but have discontinued all of them except yours. I retired 4 years ago from a job where I wore jackets and suits, and I miss that kind of dressing. I enjoy putting outfits together and have a wide selection of options for professional clothes and accessories. I have enjoyed collecting jewelry of all kinds. I continue to do some consulting, but between my retirement and the impact of COVID on more things getting done on Zoom, my wardrobe is in needed transition. I am culling my professional clothes and deciding what to keep and figuring out how to use some of the pieces I like most in different ways. I favor more classic styles most often with some quirk here and there and your examples are more appealing to me than many of the other blogs/posts I previously followed. Also, I am petite and rounded, not tall and willowy. I need comfortable shoes and boots without ridiculous heels. I live in a northern climate and wear warm clothes a good part of the year and I like my warm clothes and layers best. I need a wardrobe that functions for my current day-to-day requirements without looking too casual (sloppy) or dowdy. Your suggestions and comments are more useful to me than the others I have followed.
I enjoy your blog because I like your sense of style. I also appreciate how open you are about your struggles. I too have thin, fine hair and have been helped by your postings.
I live in Texas. I appreciate your sense of casual style and choice of items which are generally reasonably priced. I love that you share your fit and sizing tips, especially since I am similar in build (but slightly more petite). Your outfits are lovely, but not over the top for most of us. Thank you for professional, honest, and educational posts that have helped me with my wardrobe.
I’m fairly new to reading fashion blogs but I do really like yours because your style mirrors mine quite a bit. I live in the Pacific Northwest and I really like the casual, classic look which you pull off beautifully. It is apparent that you put some time and effort into your posts which are well thought out and well written. I am retired and quite active although have not done much shopping since COVID. I am trying to pare down to a capsule wardrobe and would like to see more on how to mix and match clothing to accomplish that. I enjoy seeing the try on sessions that you do and that you also provide budget options. Thanks for all the hard work you do on your posts!
From New Zealand so our seasons are opposite and clothes too costly to ship. But I am in my 60s, similar problems with skin and hair and same dress sense. I love that you have thoroughly researched your beauty products, have a great style that is not over the top but still fun. Always enjoy reading about your styling tips and your trips.
I agree with so many of the comments already posted. what especially stands out for me, is that you seem to care about your readers and focus on our needs, while many other bloggers seem more interested in representing the brands and the stores they like to shop. You write for us and I so appreciate that!
I enjoy the simplicity you portray. You are very realistic with your style. You are my go to blog also. I have given up several. Keep doing what you are doing so well!❤
Jennifer,
Sorry I am posting this late. I follow your blog because you are an inspiration for those of us who are embracing a mature, yet positive and well dressed lifestyle. I continue to work and enjoy my career, and the outfits, style tips, etc. you share reflect the more casual way we dress today, as a result of the times (and working from home all those months.)
I love your blog! I’m 65 and share your hair issues and have found your advice very helpful. I’d always struggled with blow drying my hair and usually would just give up and use hot rollers but your tips have been so helpful and my hair now looks more stylish. Your fashion tips are great and you feature attractive clothes and how to wear them in the most flattering way. The tone of your blog is always kind and your enthusiasm comes through, it’s fun to read what you have to say! Your blog is the only one I follow with the exception of a recipe blog. (USA)
I read your blog because your tone is encouraging, friendly, and enthusiastic, your suggestions are specific and mainstream, and I like the outfits you put together. I am not very stylish. In my late 50s, I had about given up. I found your blog and it’s making me feel more hopeful. Your advice is specific enough to be actionable but not so “out there” on the forward edge of fashion that I’d be afraid to try it. e.g., the blog post about wearing leggings in your 50s. I also like to see how you accessorize, which I rarely have ever done but I’m starting to learn how to do.
Late to the party, but here nonetheless. I am almost 72, live in Canada in a small bedroom community outside of Toronto. I am semi-retired, a garment sewer for over 60 years and fashion enthusiast. I used to follow Brenda Kinsel and was actually in the middle of a second on-line class on fashion with her when we tragically lost her. I still miss her and read her old blogs now and then. I follow you and Susan Blakley because of your constant pursuit of dressing well without going over-board on fads. I really like your dressing room diaries and your innovative beauty treatment reports that make me aware of what’s new out there. I have found a lot of the information you present very helpful to stay in touch with the changing products on the market. And like others have said, I love your genuine way of ‘talking’ to your audience. It feels like a chat with a friend.
I followed Tania first snd through her found you and Susan. Interestingly enough, my body is nothing like yours so I was lukewarm at first. However, I have purchased (and loved) several beauty products you recommended. Also I’ve bought things based on your dressing room diaries. I realized that even though I’m not built like you, you offer great advice. I look forward to your blogs!
I will stay with your blog because you introduce trends in a way that is reasonable. I like to be challenged to elevate my style without breaking the bank or looking like I am trying to hard. I’m always happy when you find something at Walmart that works with something you bought at A more expensive shop. I also have thin hair and I’m short so your suggestions are very applicable to me. Thank you for your work!
I read your blog because it is a blog. I’m not on Facebook, Instagram or Tik Tok, and not interested in joining them. I do on watch some You Tube Fashion videos, but that’s a sometime thing, were as blogs are a daily thing. I’m about your age, so appreciated that your figure is closer to mine than some 20 or 30 YO. But if I’m honest, often your styling often skews a little more traditional/conservative than what I’m interested in.
I’ve given up reading other blogs because there is always the product du jour every week. Certainly they couldn’t be using all this stuff! Also the overexposure issue with too many posts, guest posts and too much advertising.
I like your in store shopping trips and your sizing tips. Your blog is personal without overdoing it.
I love that you are humble and have Simple and elegant taste.
I also love that the clothes you choose don’t ever go out of style !
I get a lot of inspiration from your creativity and confidence !
your personal expression in how to dress 👗 is encouraging!
💕 love and aloha from Kapalama, Oahu, Hawaii.
I read and follow your blog because you show classic /timeless clothing. There are too many blogs that are all about what is In/Out and although I like to be current being a slave to fashion is not my thing. Your pictures are always down to earth real and by that I mean if the wind blows a hair out of place you roll with it……and you smile (one blogger always tries for that cool sophisticated thing and she often looks like she is sucking lemons) As well as this you don’t get defensive if someone says they don’t like something….after all to each her own. Even when life throws you a curve ball you stay positive (I can think of one blogger where every post she is whining about something). Keep doing what you are doing!
I like the blog because you are down to earth, practical, funny and you know your own faults and flaws. You are not afraid to show yourself without makeup, I admire that. I also like that you love our beautiful Vancouver. So thank you for this wonderful blog keep them coming.
Shirley Davey
Port Moody B.C.
We live in Roseville, I always look for u while shopping. Your style is classic as is mine. Price points are reasonable . You seem very relateble . Keep going strong
USA…I enjoy your blog because of your honesty & transparency. We all have “trouble spots” and I so appreciate that you don’t try to hide yours. You even give us tips and tricks for help with our own areas, plus styling inspiration. I enjoy your frustrations, because I certainly have my own. Your sense of humor tickles me, too. So there we are, friends, online!
All the best,
~Katrina
To answer your questions, first, I live in the US, Washington. I will be moving to Idaho soon.
I like your blog for the following reasons, you take very nice pictures of yourself, wearing lovely outfits. I like the outdoor shots, you must live in a very pretty area. Nicely landscaped, so I enjoy seeing it. I also like that you talk about different subjects, not just clothing, such as beauty products, health products, I.e. collagen. I have bought several containers so far. I like it, it helps my nails. Also the stuff for eyebrows is pretty good. I am on my second order. I think it works, may have to give it more time. I like your blog about glasses, lots of good info. Some stuff is a bust like the faux suede jacket, I sent both back, didn’t like the material and they didn’t fit. Some blouses you had featured in the past are very nice, I love them. I don’t like the mannequins you feature. Hope that helps you.
I follow your blog because your taste in clothing is similar to mine, and I find inspiration for clothing that I would actually buy and wear. Although I am a pear shape, we are the same age and height. You seem natural, practical, and approachable – a person you’d love to have as a friend! (It’s also great that you love to read!)
I like your style and voice and read your blog for both purchasing and styling ideas. I enjoy staying current with my style and adding new pieces each season, but I don’t love shopping in the stores or keeping up with all the latest trend news. It’s helpful to hear your styling thought process and see how things look on someone of about my age and height. The beautiful outfits you put together feel just right to me – not too young, too old, too dressy, or too “try-hard” – and I can picture myself wearing them in my real life. I enjoy the range of prices that you feature as I often tend to favor higher quality items now. I appreciate that even when you are focusing on a particular retailer or product, it never feels like a sales pitch. Your writing style feels honest and genuine, and I always think I’d enjoy sitting down for a chat with you! I’m from the US; thank you for the work you do.
It is interesting to see how you style things. You give me ideas on how to dress. You are down to earth and I feel like I know you. Thanks for sharing your ideas and thoughts.
I have followed you for years. I have looked at other fashion bloggers, some of whom you have collaborated with, but your style is closest to mine. You feature a wide range of clothes with different price points and I appreciate that.
I was never interested in fashion, wear very little makeup and accessories drive me crazy. You have given me many invaluable tips. I don’t post very often, and usually the “Would you wear it” outfits make me cringe, but I think I have become more open to new ideas, so thank you!
I am from northern US.
It looks like you have the sleeves of the jacket rolled up and tucked under. Am I right? I like the jacket but given that it has zippers at the bottom of the sleeve and it doesn’t come in petite, I can’t contemplate buying it. I’d be disappointed and unable to get it altered by my tailor. Too bad – it looks very nice on you.
I really look forward to your posts. It helps me define my style. I love JJill clothing which you show. I live in New Mexico, USA. I love wearing nice outfits, makes me feel good about myself, confident. Just enjoy hearing your blog and the comments of other women.
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I follow your blog because your taste is similar to mine, I am a little shorter but your dressing room diaries are very helpful. I also have fussy feet so I appreciate that you are not showing me foutwear that I cannot wear. Your clothes are classy and not grumpy and you avoid the whacky stuff which I appreciate.
I’m from the US
My goals I am trying yo lose weight and am looking to find some transition pieces. Of. Course if I love the piece… then I just love the piece.
I love your modern classic style. I am 5’3″ so I pay attention to the syles you wear for proportions for shorter ladies.
Hi Jennifer. I enjoy your blog for dressing room diaries and a realistic outlook on aging. I am a 58 year old female from northern Alberta.
You have a fashion style that appeals to me. Even though our body types differ, I feel that, for the most part, I can/could make your outfits work for me. Our hair is very similar so I enjoy seeing what you do with yours. I also like the tone of your blog. It is very encouraging and positive. You are very relatable and friendly. I’m a SoCal gal.
Hi Jennifer..I discovered your blog this past summer,when you had posted some pics of your visit to Vancouver!Living in the lower mainland I was intrigued..I have been a follower ever since.I love your approach to style and fashion…you are current without being trendy and offer realistic outfits and pairings that have helped me “ up my game”..I really enjoy the “ dressing room diaries”…thank you for the time and effort you put into the blog and and I will continue to learn from it.cheers,Cheryl
I love your blog and the inspiration you give me. The dressing room diaries are helpful, most are brands I shop and seeing them on you rather that a 20 something really helps. Your sizing info helps as well. You outfits are much my style and you inspire me to look at my existing wardrobe in different ways-combining colors, textures etc. I am sort of anti trend, maybe just a bit here and there ,and try to shop more in a classic direction. So that means that too many of my clothes feel the same. Yikes!!! But you do help me look at existing things in a new way. The helpful tips (brush rollers for instance) and on and on are fun. I feel like you could be a friend and that you seem honest about the clothing your present . Thank you. Seattle,WA
I follow you because you’re normal, you look like my friends and peers. We’re not size 2 and 5’7”, we’re vibrant, fun and middle age! I love that you go into dressing rooms and play with fashion and give us ideas. Some of us are missing girlfriends to shop with and you fill that void. Thank you for letting us shop with you!!
Jennifer,
I love your blog for many reasons. You may love neutrals but you also show other colors, you also model outfits that don’t necessarily flatter your body type but do some of your readers. You are honest about the products you share with us and have different price ranges for all budgets. Most of all I feel that you are real.
Hello
I live in Maryland, USA. I follow your blog because we are close in age. I like ideas for classic clothing. I love dressing room try on’s. I get ideas from different post and stories you share. Your taste is a bit more high end for me but I still Like to visit your blog. Talbets would be the most expensive store I would go to. I like old navy, Target and Walmart. Easy ways to follow trends.
I read your blog everyday because I can relate to you. I am petite and over 80, but the clothes and products you present are styles I wear and ideas you send our way help me to improve my appearance. Thanks
You look great in those soft neutrals. I follow your blog because you make being stylish accessible for many women, including those who have a more limited budget. You shop at stores that are available in my area (BC). In addition, you are positive and upbeat, and honest.
I do love your style advice… it’s so positive and gives good tips on how to dress for our bodies and hair/skin tones. But I follow because of your kind positivity!
I have left a few blogs that don’t pertain to me. I feel you are very honest and have such great topics that I can learn from and actually pertain to my lifestyle. I am 67, retired for five years and was an educator for 34 years. You give me incentive to look my best and your variety of skin care, hair, etc resonate with me. I am not interested in learning of bloggers grandchildren happenings as am not a grandmother. But, love hearing about your daughter as I am a mother of a beautiful daughter, aren’t we blessed! I say add grandchildren happenings to FB or other social media, this is not what I want to see when I open a blog post. Just my opinion!
I am from Oregon. Thank you Jennifer, love, love your blog!
You are a beautiful woman and are aging so gracefully!
I am one who is considering paring down the number of fashion blogs that I read regularly. It seems that many have become little more than advertising arms for the retailers that they’re affiliated with. I don’t see that as much in yours. I like bloggers who, like you, are willing to share their lives along with fashion advice. Over the years that I’ve followed you I’ve enjoyed reading about your travels, your move to your present home, your health challenges, your visits with your daughter, etc. Those things bring life and interest to your blog. If anything, I’d love to see more of that. My fashion and lifestyle goals include becoming a more ethical shopper, so I would certainly be interested in your thoughts and advice in that regard. I tend to skim through posts like Dressing Room Diaries because I’m in Alberta, Canada and I don’t have access to many of the same retailers as you do, but I still pick up occasional ideas from those.
Hi – I enjoy your blog because you present useful, ordinary ideas and styles, not crazy or one-sided. And I probably very much agree with your style esthetic. That said, you will honor others’ opinions and you encourage self-expression and building confidence. You also have segments that share your experience with various life-issues, ie, arthritis, hair-thinning, wrinkles, etc that certainly fit my age demographic. I like the to-do segments concerning hair styles, scarves, style tips, etc. You are down-to-earth and kind, qualities very much appreciated.
My style is most likely Chico’s influenced. My goals are to remain active and attractive within my abilities and possibilities. I am in the process of trying to downsize, house and wardrobe, not an easy task!
I am currently living in TX, but spent most of my life in the Chicago-land area. Thanks for your information!
I agree with the other commenters…reading your blog is like catching up with a friend and I feel a connection with you as we are close to the same age and stage in life. I have learned so much about clothing choices, color, beauty products, hair care, accessorizing and more. I find myself thinking about what you have said when I go clothes shopping.
I think it would be fun if you occasionally did a dressing room diary with someone who has a different body type. I would love to have a figure like yours, but it’s not to be!
In as few as words as possible (which is difficult for me … lol!), I visit and appreciate your blog because you are genuine, informative and stylish. -Brenda-
P.S: I live in Canada
I enjoy your blog everyday! I find reading blogs much more enjoyable than Instagram. The IG stories, reels, quick turn of a page is exhausting for me. I love your fashion styling, travel tips. You are very relatable. You always point out your fashion challenges with your body type and I always learn something. Keep it up!
I live in San Francisco Bay Area. (BTW, I’ve met your friend Bonnie Addario several times. She’s amazing! Jill Costello and her family are lifelong friends of ours. )
Love this blog because: I like most of the styles shown, I’m in the senior years, also deal with thinning hair, need comfortable shoes, love my adult kids and dog sit occasionally. I also have a husband who is my best friend.
No sales pitch. Honesty
Love Vancouver (live at White Rock). I don’t have the energy to go shopping like I used to so you can do that for me.
Biggest frustration is online shopping from Canada. I’ve actually lost money trying
to return things.
I think if we met we would become friends.
You have similar coloring to me although I’m a half foot taller, you are not a slave to some color police that say you should only wear certain colors, which I find so limiting, your style overall fits my retired lifestyle, you don’t preach or pray, not that having religion in your life is a bad thing, I just find proselytizing untoward in this forum and you seem to be genuine in all you share plus have fun doing it…Bravo. Also the ads do not slow down or have to be refreshed on the iPad I use to view your posts 😊
I follow your blog because I like your style aesthetic and the way you talk about the clothing you style and I enjoy the personal updates. We’re close in age so that also works for me because I feel that what you style is age appropriate but youthful and I want to achieve that myself. I also like hearing about the time you spend in Canada. I’m a Canuck, originally from the Niagara region but I’ve lived in Calgary since 1980. I love to visit Vancouver and Vancouver Island, so the posts from your visits there resonate with me. Your life is very different from mine but the blog offers lots of good ideas for styling what I already own and items to consider adding to my wardrobe.
I enjoy your tips for those of us over “a certain age”. Your willingness to try on new fashions and to give styling tips is very helpful. And as others have commented, your writing style is warm and friendly which makes it feel more personable. Thanks for all of this!
I relate to your sense of style. Everything is very polished and thought through, but not untouchable in price
I too have given up other blogs but not yours.
Look forward to them every day
Like so many have said you have an approach to life and style that resonates with me. While we have different body types and coloring, I appreciate the styles tips, especially one outfit styled different ways that show how tucking in a top elongates your legs, and things like that. I’m not someone who enjoys shopping, so to have you as my ‘personal’ stylist helps me find pieces without the chore of searching online or in person. Thanks so much. I live in USA – Midwest.
Jennifer, I’ve been reading your blog for several months now and really enjoy your approach. I looked at a couple other blogs but believe me, you are the cutest, best style, best sense of humor and best outlook on aging and life in general I’m in Seattle and the weather has a definite effect on what I wear and I am 70 now and just retired so my choices are a lot more casual. You, however, are never over dressed nor do you look like you’re trying too hard to look young. I’ve been interested in fashion my whole life and think that a lot of styles are impossible to wear these days if you are over 16. So carry on, I’m a great fan and would miss you if you quit.
I love your casual style, it is so relatable to the life I am living at the moment but at the same time I appreciate your put together appearance. Hopefully, I will be able take your important lessons and apply them to my life .
Hi Jennifer, I’m 55 and live in NZ but still enjoy reading your blog from the other side of the world! I love the real life try ons that you do. Dressing room diaries and trying on what a mannequin is wearing and then styling it on a real person. Your styling tips are great. Even though I am a different body shape and colouring, I love seeing the clothes on a real person and what you do to style them so they suit you. It is great inspiration.
In NZ we don’t have access to all the beauty products and clothes brands that you have in the states and I often ponder about starting my own blog, highlighting NZ brands. Seeing clothes on a real person is so different to seeing them on a model or a mannequin.
I have learnt a lot from you about different things you have tried for over 50 women issues, such as, thinning hair and sun care. I love what you have done with your hair.
I also love hearing about your travels, home and family. Thanks for sharing your life. I’m a house wife at home with a 16 year old teenage daughter. I would rather be working but right now I am supporting my daughter, Mother’n’law (84) and husband in his business. I enjoy the blogs of women over 50 as they share what they are doing in their careers or retirement. This phase of life I am in, is going to come to an end as my daughter moves on from school and I’m looking out for the next thing.
You look gorgeous in this outfit. I agree about straight leg jeans, they are more comfortable as we age.
As we say in NZ
Nga mihi, kia kaha
Kind regards, stay strong
Claire
I enjoy your blog because it is written for women over 50, although a younger woman could read it and get useful information. What I enjoy most about it is how you analyze why something works or how it could be re-styled for an improvement. You seem very open and welcoming in receiving the ideas of others. Some bloggers don’t post very often, but I can count on yours! As for me, I need help with ideas for dressing up for evening and holiday events. Although we live in a very casual city, I would like to have a few things for going out to dinner or to a birthday party or holiday party. Last night we went to a country club for dinner with friends. I managed to put together something that was OK but would have liked to up my game a little, if you know what I mean. Thanks Jennifer
I found your blog from another blogger (Over 50, Feeling 40 I think) when I was in my mid50s and dealing with the bodily changes that many women our age do. I still working — most likely for several more years, so I appreciate that your clothes are just what I am looking for — stylish and comfortable and affordable. In addition to enjoying your fabulous fashion sense and tips, I love that your blog is such a warm and friendly place. I appreciate your openness about health and other personal issues, too. Greetings from Ohio!
I like your blog because you are relatable and closer to my age than some bloggers, I am 64. Too many other bloggers have so many sponsored posts. I follow blogs for outfit inspiration so I don’t need to see a newly purchased outfit everyday. I don’t mind seeing the same pieces you own remixed, after all that his how we really live! On the flip side I do enjoy when you do Dressing Room Diaries because I do like to know what is in style and how it fits a real woman. Keep up the good work!
I enjoy your sense of classic, comfortable and on trend style for women over 50. Several of your selections I have gone out to purchase. You tend to shop at similar stores as I do, Chicos, Nordstrom and Talbots, and also expose me to some stores I don’t often frequent like Madewell, JCrew, and J Jill. I started following you before you moved nearby, and now I can zip down to our local stores right after you post something, because I know it’s in stock–such a bonus. I love that you clearly state the size and how the items you model fit as it is such a help when I purchase online. It’s a bonus for me that you now live in an adjacent small town, but I was a fan before you were a neighbor!
Reasons for me include:
you are real… you share the challenges of gettin’ older … you share solutions that work for you
i live in Victoria, BC and am so pleased with the way you toggle between vancouver, Vancouver Island and your life in california….you are nicely tuned in to your readers….
keep up the good work Jennifer, I’m delighted to see how much reader loyalty you’ve garnered over the years.
I enjoy your blog because you are open, honest, and down to earth. I like your style and appreciate seeing various price points in the items you share. It makes me feel better about my aging self when you share your struggles and you encourage me to keep fighting! Love your travel, the care you pour on your family, and your new comfy shoes! I feel like we’re friends. Thank you so much!
I like that your blog focuses on affordable fashions…and I appreciate that your blog sticks to fashion and doesn’t delve into religion…which is not something I come to a fashion blog to read about, but so many of the others feel it necessary to include it.
I read your blog to gather ideas for the clothes I see at thrifts and vintage shops. The thrifts sell to people whose incomes are limited and who are looking for affordable clothes when entering, or re-entering the work force, many of whom are on small budgets, single parents (both men and women shop thrifts), and others who are new to the country and or community. Your blog helps with styling tips that can update older clothing and new.
I read your blog for myself to refresh a closet full of clothes that are worn too infrequently because of COVID and being retired. I rarely shop retail now because of choice, and even less often do I shop for clothes online after reading what happens to returns, Amanda Mull/ The Atlantic and Fasionopolis. Land fills and sweatshops in foreign countries are another determent.
I follow several fashion blogs, but yours is the one that I read every time. We have similar style choices and I can relate to your lifestyle. Not sure when I started following you, but it’s been several years and before your move. I love your try on dressing room diaries. They’re honest and you show the good and the bad with options on how to style outfits. Although we have very different body types and I weigh 25-30lbs more than you do, we are the same height and have similar coloring so that gives me a good idea on how things might look on me. I love fashion and your blog is like talking to a girlfriend. Many of my girlfriends do not care about fashion like I do or they have a very different style, which is OK, but not conducive to talking fashion. I love neutrals, but also wear more color than you and I’m thrilled that you are embracing color more. Keep it up! I am not going anywhere!
Hello Jennifer from New Zealand. I read your blog because you are about my age and although you are smaller than me we are a similar body shape. Your advice is balanced and your taste is classic. You are notvtrying desperately to sell me something and although we are at opposite seasons here on the other side of the Pacific, I enjoy seeing what fashion will bring me in six months time. Cheers Linda Todd
I only recently discovered you blog and am so very glad I did! Your style, and body type (as well as size) are close to mine, although I am a 70-something brunette with natural touches of silver gray. I too have thinning hair.
I am also petite (5’1”) and appreciate your suggestions as to sizing when you feature an item. Sometimes petites, sometimes regular sized, depending on the fit.
I also like to shop many of the stores you frequent. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area and so we are also seasonally close in terms of what works for our climate.
It’s a win in every way, and I love your blog!
I am a relatively new follower of yours who lives in Canada. After a lifetime of working in an office setting, feeling the pressure to look “professional and polished” at all times, I recently retired. I found myself in search of a new look that is polished yet not professional – something that is more comfortably “me”. I find fashion guidance and ideas suited to my age and appropriate to my new situation in your emails/blog.
I enjoy your dressing room diaries, an easy way to see what is in the stores and how it looks on a real person. I have the opposite body type as you, -pear! but I can guess how it will work for me by how it fits you( the opposite!)
I really enjoy your real life stories- health, hair, skin care, feet that have to wear more comfy shoes, the environmental effect of the clothing industry.
You have a friendly face and great style; that’s what drew me initially. I’m in your age group and I appreciate the sound fashion advice on looking stylish and current while being age appropriate. I learn something every time I read your posts. Sometimes I find myself asking “would Jennifer wear this?” Aside from the content, I like the layout and design of your page. It’s easy and casual.
The photography is the right amount of amateur (hope I haven’t insulted anyone) and settings are great. You look like you’re having fun! That makes me want to see what you’re up to next.
Absolutely loved the moto jacket, ordered an xl. The fit on the jacket was so small that I had to check the label to confirm that it actually was an xl. The quality was so nice that I hated to return it. Unfortunately, xxl was out of stock. Not sure if that would’ve fit though.
Hi Jennifer,
I can go on and on why I enjoy your blog and YOU so much but one word just sums it all up you
are fabulous in everyway. I know you put your heart and soul into what you do and it shows.
I really like that you are down to earth and show your human side. I LOVE that. I think if you lived
in Arizona we would be “gal pals.” I have friends of all ages. We happen to be close in age and share some of the same health issues, thyroid, arthritis, feet, carpal tunnel (I’ve had surgery on both back in 2012). I am a little bit older than you I believe, 70 years young.
Where in CA do you live. My home town was San Francisco, Sausalito, Larkspur, Stinson Beach (all Marin County). My hubby moved to CA from Vancouver, BC.
Thank you for everything you do, YOU are appreciated.
Take care, and stay safe.
Smiles,
Katherine
I continue to follow your blogs because you are genuine, you are open to comments and you project an image that I aspire to achieve.
Hello Jennifer and all: I would echo what everyone is saying regarding, price point, variety, relatability to the age you are (and I am). Your gift ideas were wonderful. I will say that I tried to order this Moto jacket from Nordstroms and had my order canceled. I suppose it was out of stock, I am going to try again, because I really like it. I have tried several links in your blog where items were sold out. I guess that proves you are hitting the mark! I have also used some of your wise suggestions (wore that pearl necklace yesterday because as you say, if not now, when?) I know that your blog takes a lot of work and expertise. Thank you! I live in Southern California but was raised in Pennsylvania so I am somewhat “fashion conflicted”. East coast more formal, West coast, who is formal?
Jennifer,
Your Well Styled Life is one I look forward to. Your clothing choices and accessories are very helpful. As others have stated, you select items that are reasonably priced and a great look for us older gals!
I enjoy when you include travel wardrobe and give your life adventures: moving, traveling and recovering from illness.
You inspire all of us.
I look at your blog to discover new styles and how to update my wardrobe.
You are the best!!!
Alicia
Alabama – USA
I like your blog because you are so amusing and self deprecating. Your clothes choices are so wearable, unlike many bloggers. Although your figure is very different from mine, I still find plenty to learn in your posts. I especially like the DRD. Also I like that you give your dimensions and weight so I can compare with my own.
I am in England, so rather different climate from yours!
I’m from the USA. Your classic style is similar to mine and we’re close in age. I’ve always dressed in the classic style but it was boring as I have a hard time putting things together (colors). Matching colors is my biggest challenge. I have a closet full of pieces of clothing, but not many outfits. I’m learning to put pieces together that I never would have thought to do. I’m also wearing more color. I love the way you style the outfits. My fashion goal has always been to look polished and put together and with your help it’s starting to happen. I’ve always hated clothes shopping but now it’s actually becoming enjoyable. This past summer I bought a pair of pants you modeled that I never would have looked at in the store. You come across as very relatable and someone I would be friends with. I’ve learned a lot from you and look forward to reading your blog. I used to read another blog in addition to yours but have given the other one up. My husband has noticed and likes the changes I’ve made. Thank you for what you do!
I agree with all of the previous comments so I won’t repeat it all. I do not skip your posts because I gain more useful information about clothing styles, fit, color, etc. from you than from any other blogger. I especially like your Dressing Room posts because they make me feel like I’ve been shopping. Your explanations of why or why not a particular style is good for you, plus the comparisons between petite and regular sizing, are most informative. I’m comenting from South Louisiana where I am currently homeless, living in my daughter’s toy room, while my house is restored after a visit from Hurricane Ida. All my clothes are piled on sofas and boxes in my living room. I cannot buy more at this time but I still enjoy shopping with your blog.
I love looking at the different combinations and how you pull your clothes together. Our body shapes are very different so the styles aren’t always a match for me, but I love the color combinations. What got me hooked was when you had pictures of 2 outfits that you had started with 1 set of accessories and then changed the shoes, and other small changes to make a big difference.
You dance with the one that brought you
It means be considerate and loyal to the one who has been supportive, attentive, or helpful to you.
Some of the ones I started following and supporting have became so elite and just left the poorer of us behind. I’m sorry but I can’t pay $400 for a jacket or $200 for a blouse and be told what a deal it is. I’m fine with anyone moving up but at least give a nod to those who helped you get there. Show mid range and lower price range of similar item. (Thanks Susanafter60 for doing just that)
You stuck with us and include us. You also teach us and are just so down to earth. Tania too.
AND THATS WHY, I LOVE ❤️ 💕 💗 YOUR BLOG. Don’t change a thing.
Love Susan after 60 as well!
I like the features, DRD, WYWI, etc. I like you (a fellow Canadian-California transplant.) I love the virtual trips I get to take to Vancouver. Your style is different from mine, but I still like the outfits you put together for yourself. Most of all, I really like how you don’t jump on trend bandwagons and then promote them to death.
I am fairly new to you blog Jennifer and although I don’t comment often, I do enjoy the content very much. I am a neutral gal similar to you and feeling more confident injecting colour into my wardrobe. I follow your blog to gain insight into brands that are reputable and I find you are very good at covering a wide range of brands and retailers. I also love reading the comments of your readers Jennifer. You have created a wonderful community of followers. Thank you for all you do! I am from Canada 🇨🇦.
I first started following your blog when I saw a picture of the Inside Passage…and I thought hey, I know that scenery. I’m originally from Vancouver, living in the suburbs now for 30 years.
Your blog differs from other blogs because you are not in it just to make money…you honestly discuss issues regarding life and family and I feel we have some things in common, including hair issues.
I recently retired as a manager in a large corporate office and need help looking great in more casual clothes. I don’t have access to the same US stores as you shop at, and shipping with duty, etc., can increase the price a lot, but I shop wisely and incorporate classic pieces in my new wardrobe.
I like the way you style all neutral looks. They are instant posh. I am a person drawn to bold colors and colors all over. But I enjoy looking at other styles.
I live in the USA and follow your site because you are approximately my height and weight, although I am a few years older. I like to follow you to see what is in style and colors that are trending. I especially like to see the sizes you are wearing because it helps me when shopping to try sizes that I wouldn’t usually try. Keep up the good work.
Your content has taught me so much. I echo the other comments about dressing room diaries, relatability, honesty.
While I love reading your content, I have one negative comment and it is offered in the spirit of honesty. My one difficulty with your site is all the moving ads and perhaps you have no control over how the ads appear. I understand that advertising pays the bills. However, when every ad is flashing or moving, it is distracting and in some cases can trigger headache. The most serious reason I would hope you would address this if you can is that in addition to being annoying, these ads distract from your excellent content. Yours is the last fashion blog I read. Others I have given up on because of the intensity of advertising. Please know how much I enjoy your actual content and appreciate you yourself. You are a committed and outstanding blogger.
USA
This is Grainne from Dublin, Ireland. I love your posts, we are the same height so I know your choices will suit me. Unfortunately, we don’t have the same shops as you but can generally find similar styles. I also like a neutral palette.
I follow your blog because your style and colour choices are similar to mine. I live in Alberta, so our weather is different but many of items you show are ones that I can see myself wearing.
You make great recommendations for women who are 50+. Your dressing room “how would you wear it” is always fun. I appreciate alerts for sales, and I like your focus on casual, comfortable, wearable and stylish clothing. I read several women’s blogs, and yours is one I never skip.
Always interesting and a nice choice in clothing. I’ve bought several items on your recommendation.
I agree with the common themes of relatability and honesty! My age, taste, body shape, size and colouring are very similar to yours, so I love that you basically “ preview” for me and guide me towards successful choices! Historically I’ve been drawn to long, oversized tops ( thinking to disguise my athletic shoulders and hide my post menopausal belly), but I have now donated those to my 5’9” daughter ( who thinks she’s won the lottery!) and am learning to be comfortable allowing my shape to show. Thank you! Please keep on blogging!
( Victoria, BC, Canada)
That’s a good question, Jennifer! Yours was the first blog I found when I started looking for fashion advice for someone over 50. I like the things you style, even though our shapes are different and our preferences are a little different. You give me good ideas that I can adapt to my own tastes.
Also – I LOVE your dressing room try-ons! I live in the south and don’t always have the same items available, but they are still a great way to see what’s out there, and to see how you style them. That’s so very helpful – I am not that good at putting all the pieces together into a cohesive outfit!
Finally, your blog feels like talking to a friend. Not sure how to break that down, but there it is.
I forgot to tell you that I am over 70 and have always taken pride in my appearance; and I love fashion. I like to find ideas for using pieces that I already have and discovering new color combinations. My style is classic and understated. I live in Missouri, USA.
I enjoy your blog, as you bring many ideas for the everyday woman. I am petite and I enjoy your various dressing room diaries and your explanations as to why it may not work for petite woman.
The best thing I have learned is one third, two thirds dressing. I have short legs and I look much better if I keep my tops, jackets, ,etc at a shorter length and for that reason I try to stay away from tunic style items, as they just emphasize the shorter legs. I live in British Columbia, Canada and enjoy all your recommendations but we do not have the the same stores but I do enjoy shopping in the US when I can, which I hope is soon! Keep blogging. I also find you relatable and in the same phase of life as myself, so enjoy how to make fashion work.
The bloggers that I have dropped were lovely ladies, but their style was too different from mine, and/or the items they featured were priced much higher than I care to pay, even though I can. I just don’t think a person has to spend $250 for a blouse when there are attractive and reasonable alternatives. Your writing style comes across as a nice, REAL, friendly person. Keep up the good work!
Hi Jennifer, I have been following you for awhile now and I really relate to you You are a little taller I am 5 feet. and petite. I love your style more casual which what works for me. Not over done. Your coloring is like mine, blonde hair, thinning, blue eyes. I love your fantastic smile.
I also know how you have issues just like the rest of us but keep going with your great blogs not only about clothes, products for skin & hair, hair tips, gifts etc. I think You are an inspiration!!
I’m from Minnesota . It’s going to snow today!
Oh by the way, I’m 65 and I think I can dress like you, I love the Talbots outfits you show, because its about the only place I can buy petites, that are so beautiful and I think high quality. Most stores around me are not even carrying them in the stores anymore, Nordstroms is one of them.
Keep going lady. love you!
Leann
I follow your blog for several reasons. You share classic fashions that look good on the average fifty plus woman who is seeking reasonably priced, stylish clothing. I also love your focus on colors and neutrals. I’m not much of a neutrals person (I mostly wear mid-toned brighter tops with black or denim jeans.) You and I are of similar coloring. Who knows, you may inspire me to add a few neutrals to my wardrobe, for a change of pace. The neutrals look great on you. Keep up the good work! USA
I love your blog… it has encouraged me to try different ways to dress, I love the links to shop for items I like and I love the way your blog is put out…I live in Pennsylvania USA
I enjoy your blog because your style is a bit like mine. You and I about the same size. I am from BC in Canada. I am sorry we don’t have the same stores as you do ☹️ I don’t like having to pay duty as am extra cost.
Jennifer, I continue to read your blog because you give a variety of ways to wear an outfit instead of five photos of the same one. I find that I am often inspired to look at the items in my closet in a new light. Being from the Seattle area, I identify with your trips to Canada. I also love your dressing room feature where we see a variety of outfits. So one could say that I love variety in what I see. I also love your skin care and product features and your would you wear it. You encourage your readers to respond, which means I read all the comments, too. Your blog is perfect in many ways!
You are honest about who you are. That comes through in your advice on skin, hair, feet, health issues, body issues and clothing choices. I have learned how to be less dramatic in my clothing choices and more authentic. We can’t turn back the clock on aging therefore we want to be as beautiful as possible. Also, I like the stores where you shop….good price points.
Thank you and God bless you!
I started following your blog because you were originally from Vancouver Island, not far from my home. I know a silly reason. I stayed because of your fashion, kind heart, your honesty on new products for health, skin, hair, etc. and because you don’t have these huge “hauls” that arrive at your home and you try on and sell to your followers. I’ve unfollowed so many because of the constant pressure to shop. I don’t believe anyone needs all those clothes and I don’t believe all the pieces are good quality. Your fashion posts are interspersed with health, beauty, travel and that keeps it interesting.
I follow you because we are the same age and live in the same place. I love to see what you try on in the stores. I have not been to the mall in a couple of years. I enjoy seeing the new skincare, hair, and makeup products you try. I like seeing where you go to get away.
You are true to your style. Prices are more reasonable than others. An occasional spendy piece, but not $200 – $ 300 for a top which most of us wouldn’t choose. I also like neutrals as well.
Jennifer, I like the wrap blouse you’re wearing. It looks to have olive green in it as well ? True or is it just my screen ?
I read a few other blogs. I recently “quit” one as she started making political comments. Fashion and lifestyle is (should be) a respite from that, IMO. I also like the frequency of your posts – they have become part of my morning! While the style choices are not always my type, I appreciate seeing what is out there and how to style it for women of a certain age!
Greetings from Seattle. I started reading your blog because of Would You Wear it which is interesting and entertaining. I continue to read your blog for your sense of style that presents modern dressing in a way that is realistic and fun. I’m 70 but still interested in looking modern and appropriate for my slim frame. You blog is a wonderful resource and you feel like a friend.
Have continued to read your blog because I think you’re very relatable, even if we’re not the same size! You’re not over the top, you’re not too pushy, but you have a great sense of your own personal fashion and show clothing and accessories at various price points. You’re honest in your critiques and stand up for yourself when needed. You’ve also let us into your life, sharing your travel, adventures and grand, and that’s appealing and relatable.
Your blog is a comfortable place to visit and glean ideas and I like your style. It’s age appropriate and up to date at the same time. Although my budget is very limited I glean ideas as to what to look for when I shop and how to make it look better on my “Nana’s figure”. I’m in Arizona.
I agree with everyone’s coments. Being 73, I have made the transition to my natural hair color and get lots of positive comments. I would like advice on clothing colors and makeup. What are good guidelines? Beige neutrals, cream and gold or yellow can really be bad! Help!
I read only your blog, Jennifer. Several reasons:
– topics cover a wide range of topics.
– Your clothing selections and outfits are tasteful and not humdrum
– You show us lots of options for dressing
– You provide fashion insight and education
– Your selections are from stores I shop in
– You dress in outfits from all price ranges. So many bloggers work with only the high end brands.
– The items are ususally current and available.
I agree with the others who stated that you are very relatable. We are in the same age range. We have the same hair issues and even use the same rollers. I have learned so much from your tutorials and refer to them often. Even though I am taller, your dressing room dairies have steered me in the right direction many times. I truly appreciate all of the knowledge you share and all of the hard work required to continually publish an interesting, informative, enjoyable blog.
I live in the US.
I live in western Kentucky on the Ohio river. We are within 3 hours driving time of 5 major cities, St. Louis, Indy, Louisville, cincy, and Nashville. Makes for lovely 3 day weekend trips. I retired 5 years ago, been working since I was 14. I love love clothes, always have. Made nearly all my clothes in high school. My wedding dress was my senior project (made an A)……. At 5’ I could make a shift dress out of 1 yard of material, those were the days.
I’m very weirdly put together, short, broad shouldered, long waisted with very short arms and legs. Petite clothes don’t always fit correctly, usually to short waisted but still 4” too long. Don’t know what I would do without Pearl my 94 year old alteration lady.
Love your dressing room diary’s for fit advice and different styling options. I’ve learned to shop my closet and can pull together a similar version of most anything shown. I’m a cool winter in coloring, the brighter the better. When I get “cleaned up” for the day I always included jewelry, no sense in it laying in the cabinet. Someone is always asking me what are you so dressed up for…. I’m really not, but it makes me happy.
I have jabbered enough about me. Keep up the good work, I can’t wait each morning to see what you are up too. Thanks for letting us share your life.
I like your style and the colors you use. Our body types are similar enough that I can sometimes purchase things you showcase (I bought a Banana Republic dress you tried on last summer that I would never even have considered based on the webpage) because it’s so very hard to find clothes that fit well when you’re not a pear shape, isn’t it?
You’re like a cool older sister that I can learn from. <3
I appreciate the time and effort you take to keep us informed of the latest fashion. I really appreciate the wide range of prices you model, from high end to Walmart. My coloring is different but I often find the style you’re showing in a different color. And though I’m older by a few years I find you very relatable.
Jennifer, I continue to read your blog because you are petite and so am I. You have given me great ideas . I’m also in my 70’s and don’t want to look like an old lady, I want to be relevant but not wearing clothes too young for me. I find that you also give samples of moderately priced clothes or clothes I can find that are moderately priced and similar to what you post. I love your dressing room diaries! Thank you for all you do.
I enjoy reading your blog because I love your fashion sense. Your style of dressing appeals to me and I often get styling ideas that I can use . I love neutrals too and love seeing how you inject a pop of color with your accessories and your makeup. I live on Vancouver Island and also enjoy your posts where you visit us on the Island.
Hi Jennifer, I am from Canada, and have followed your blog for a couple of years now. You are relatable, warm and funny. Your style is very close to mine, or at least what I aim for. I too have very fine thinning hair, though curly, and appreciate your advice, on hair care. Reading through the other posts, I have to say I agree with many, you are down to earth, the clothes you style are usually at a reasonable price point, and I love that you show different ways to style an outfit. I follow a few other blogs, but most I have dropped as they are not relatable to me. Thank you, I enjoy reading your blog each morning.
Jennifer, I subscribe to four other fashion bloggers over 50. I don’t always agree with their choice of clothing or their taste level. In contrast, your outfits are thoughtfully chosen and attractive. I enjoy your dressing room diaries and ideas on how to improve an outfit. Please continue your excellent posts.
I have subscribed to many blogs over the last few years, but I have to say that yours is the only one I look forward to every day. You are a real woman,you say what you think, and believe in what you say! you have inspired me to try new things, clothing, hair products, etc. and I will continue to follow you for great advice , suggestions and an all around happy blog. Thanks ever so much Jennifer. Proud to say I am from the great USA 🇺🇸
Happy to share! I like your style because you are not “over the top” glamour, which is not realistic, but always so well put together. You’re down to earth, but aspirational. It helps that you have my hair – thin, straight, baby fine – so I’m always interested in how you style it. And we have figure similarities, too. Like you, I have no hips, more of a straight up and down figure. Unfortunately my size 6 figure sports a tummy bulge, so there’s no front tuck for me. It just emphasizes that tummy in the worst way. And I like that you include lower cost alternatives like Target.
I’m from San Diego, I’m 78 (in your Faster Way cohort with Karen), and I read your blog because I like you! 😉 You generally focus on fashion from the same stores which I shop and your fashion comments generally jive with mine. Your recent little mini videos have been helpful and entertaining, too.
I really relate to your style and Love looking at all the outfits you try on. Also enjoy the would you wear it post. You talk about your life and struggles which I think is very brave. That has to make you feel vulnerable but you do it with grace and we all appreciate it.
Your blog is one of the few that feels like I’m talking with a friend. You don’t have buy-this lists, you are down-to-earth, you ask our opinion on things, you admit that things might not be your style, you explore things that are not 100% your style, you ask how to make a trend or “outlier” work with our own style. Some blogs make me feel like I’m using clothes to fit in or create a higher level status. Your photographs are in natural environments, not like a magazine shoot. I don’t need to see your outfit from 7 different angles, like others. In your dressing room diaries you’re not afraid to wear something that doesn’t fit 100% and discuss why and how you’d adapt. Your blog is not packed with handouts. You’re just real!
I love your blog because we have a similar body shape! It can be challenging to dress a 5’3’’ body! Usually too tall in the torso for petite and too short in the leg for misses! Add in age, cool coloring, and conservative tastes and we’re a match! Thanks for the great ideas!
I think the 6 comments before mine have said it all. I also follow you because my style is similar to yours, you are open about health and beauty issues in your life, and have a warm and friendly personality that makes it feel like we are friends and neighbors. AND, your dressing room diaries and other special features of your posts are incredibly helpful. Thank you for all those things!
I enjoy your blog because you are very relatable and have given me lots of styling ideas that I would never have thought of on my own. We also have the same coloring and thin, straight, thinning hair, so when things look good on you, I know they’re likely to work for me, too. I also like that you showcase clothes and accessories in a variety of price points.
I would be interested in reading a future blog post about what fabrics are best for the environment, as I’m trying to wear more earth-friendly fabrics and fewer microfibers like polyester, nylon and acrylic, but am confused as to whether rayon, bamboo and cotton are better for our planet.
Thank you for all the hard work you put into this blog!
I live in Connecticut, USA.
I stumbled over your blog while googling style tips for petites. I’m so glad I found it! I read it every morning. Your style is similar to mine and I like the way you style your outfits. I enjoy your tips about skincare and the recent gift ideas. I enjoy the WYWI and the mannequin posts. I like that your links are to stores I shop and are reasonably priced. I too have an adult daughter and I think we would be friends if you lived next door. I’m in my fifties and I did not want to throw in the towel and give up with dressing stylishly. Originally from the UK but live in USA now.
Started following you several years ago when I needed a fashion boost. We shop at many of the same stores and have similar tastes. I’m petite which can be a shopping/styling challenge. I’ve tried quite a few things based on your suggestions, especially Dressing Room Diaries! It’s my fav!
I love your blog because you give good useful information beside looking great. I love that you shared using mr clean sponges for cleaning white tennis shoes. Also you shared how to stretch your shoes with shoe spray and wearing socks in them to make them larger. That is what a lot of us didnt know. I also love to see the fashion news, skin news, health news and etc. So glad I found your blog. Thank you,
Jennifer, I follow you every day simply because I enjoy your blog so much. I can relate to you age-wise, style-wise, and just life wise. I enjoy the outfits you pick out and how you make some subtle adjustments and they are so much better. I get so many great ideas from you.
I also enjoy your writing and your comments and concerns about life, aging, wrinkles, etc. (all of which I can relate to)
Keep up the good work and thank you for starting my day off right.
Marian
I’ve followed you for several years now and I will continue! It’s because you are REAL. You don’t just show perfection, you take the time to show what works, what doesn’t, and why. Your styles are wearable and affordable for the real world. Our body types are completely different, but I still learn from you and the clothes you choose. We do have similar hair! I appreciate your experience, honesty, and experimentations. Thank you and keep going!
The clothes you feature are appropriate for my stage of life. I turned 70 in June and I decide earlier this year I was not going to be frumpy at 70. Your clothing items are at the right price point for me and you use accessible vendors. You give me great ideas about how to style my outfits. I also enjoy your advice on beauty and health products. Enjoy having coffee with you every morning.
1) I live in the East Bay, so our clothing choices for weather are comparable
2) You publish often so I can enjoy almost every day
3) The prices of the clothing you pull are in my range
4) You seem like a woman I would know
5) Your style is relatable
Sorry, lists are my thing
My sister and I both read your blog because we like your style so much! It is very much what we want and strive for ourselves; casual, fashionable, but practical. Although I like to wear a bit more color than you do (my sister disagrees with me!). You seem to live the same life style that we do in a region with similar weather as we rarely see something we don’t have occasion to wear regularly. It doesn’t hurt at all that your size and body shape are very much like our own with broad shoulders and straight thinner hair. So we pretty much know how an item will look on us by seeing it on you. Your outfits give us a lot to think about for our own style and are fun to watch. We also appreciate that you budget seems to be in our “Neighborhood” too. No clicking on a link and finding a $180 tee shirt (This happened to me recently and I keep shaking my head and asking why!). I’ve really enjoyed your recent restyling of items on “Would you wear it” posts. It gives me a lot more to consider when looking at the item that isn’t styled the way I would. We live in Washington (the state not the city).
I am from Toronto, Canada. Your blog is so refreshing. I feel like I’m following a friend. Not in a creepy way. 😉 I have a very similar sense of style except I wear more color. I too have very thin hair. I enjoy your tutorials on hair, skin and makeup. I finally found a tinted sunscreen that I can wear through your suggestions. Love Australian gold.
Thank you for being you!
Nicki
I like your style plus you are petite, and have fine hair like my own. You seem like someone I would like.
Your blog has a variety of subjects; yes it is mainly style, but you share your beauty problems and solutions, your travels, your health concerns and really to a certain extent your life with us. You don’t use foul language. Swear words will turn me off from a blog faster than anything. You also don’t use a lot of cutesy terms, such as “anyhoo.” You are willing to consider the comments of those who respond to your blog. You value their opinions. You usually are discussing things I’m interested in and in a pleasant and fun way. You don’t condemn those who disagree with you, but you have put in their place those who are extremely rude to you or others who comment.
I usually read your blog as I eat my breakfast and it is like having breakfast with a friend. My only problem is that I can’t give you a hug at the end of breakfast.
USA. I read your blog daily for multiple reasons:
I’m 72 and retired with a similar style sense.
You wear clothes that are “ageless”, yet in current style.
Our hair texture is similar. I would never have found HB Thickening Treatment of my own.
You are generous with creative clothes “hacks” that I would not have thought of.
Your blogs are short and stay on point. You do not ramble on and on.
You save me so much time from searching for the perfect (fill-in-the-blank).
You think outside the box and inspire your readers to do the same.
You are careful to include less pricier options when you can.
Your blogs are well-written and illustrated.
Elle, I agree with you, especially on the HB hair care system. It’s great, and I too never would have found it on my own.
Diane from Canada I relate to you. You keep it simple try new things put your own spin on things and have fun with it. I’m 5’1” enjoy your comments on what looks good and what to stay away from and current fashion styles It’s like having a personal stylist. My favourite is dressing room diaries. My fashion goal is to pair down my closet with only items I love to wear keep it simple. I’m retired and we love to travel so another goal is to pack light . I tend to go with neutral colours and like to keep up with current styles that suit my age. You are very much relatable.
You write so smoothly about the health, style, and everyday topics that interest me; I really have learned so much from you. I appreciate so much all of your hard work for all of us. I love your blog because your style is what I like for my age. Not too trendy, but very classic.The Dressing room diary is especially helpful. I’m from Ohio and have been following your blog for several years.
Dear Jennifer, like zu follow your blog, as you shop in my price range, give advise for cosmetic = skin/hair. Your dressing room diaries are always highlights for me ( hope, to travel soon zu Florida to shop with Talbot/Chicos!) and also sometimes when you give infos about nice places, you visit – love to read! You really do a great job for your readers! Dankeschön –
Angela
I stumbled on your blog when I was looking for inspiration to rebuild my style after I retired. I started following quite a few bloggers at that time, but only a few stuck. One of those was you. Like many of your other readers, I like you focus on fashion and find you knowledgeable, honest and relatable. I like that you are open to other opinions besides your own. Although our body types and coloring could not be more different (I am moderately tall with long legs, short torso with a thick middle, thick hair and autumn coloring), your practical tips for how to style different pieces seem universal, which has helped me to understand how to rework some items in my own wardrobe that didn’t seem that flattering before. I particularly love DRDs. You shop at many of the stores I frequent, and I have added a number of pieces to my wardrobe (perhaps a few too many!) that I wouldn’t have considered until seeing you try them on and style them in different ways. You have saved me a lot of leg work! Also, I like how your writing is friendly and conversational while still remaining focused and succinct. I enjoy the community you have built and look forward to reading the readers comments as well as the post. Finally, your website is organized and easy to read. I don’t mind ads (and realize they are necessary) but constantly having to close pop-up ads or turn off videos is so distracting, and that is never a problem on your site. You tick all the boxes, Jennifer. Keep up the good work!
Jennifer – I’m one of your readers and am a long time Chicago resident. I’ve never left a comment, but have read your blog since 2018 when the prospect of turning 60 in a few years jolted me into recognizing that the fashion thinking that had carried me through my 40s was no longer working for my 50s and I started trying to reimagine what the “next phase” of my fashion life would look like. I love clothes, fashion, iconic fashions, and have sewed my own clothes for years, resulting in a mix of purchased and self-made things. Despite thinking and dreaming about “perfect” clothes (for basically my whole life!) I rarely felt well put together. I dipped into fashion magazines, but always felt that what was portrayed was often not in line with real life (not to mention everyone seemed pounds thinner and decades younger). I found myself with a semi-working wardrobe: I had my professional office “uniform” nailed down, but couldn’t translate it into weekend wear and didn’t know how to expand it to include things for occasional dressy events. My husband and I were also traveling, pre-covid, and several times I found myself in Europe wondering what I’d been thinking when I’d carefully packed for a trip and still found myself unhappy with everything I’d brought with me. And did I mention gaining and losing weight a few times in all this as well? So, at that 2019 turning point I felt like “this is it” – I’ll either finally figure things out or I’ll grow old always feeling dissatisfied! That’s when I found your blog! I love your style and how you find creative ways to put outfits together with your sense of accessories and touches of color. I love your tiny capsule travel wardrobes. And I love the context of your fashion and self-care perspectives within the glimpses you’ve given us of your life. Many many thanks to you for your thoughtful posts, showing how accessible it can be to find the perfect look — and to also recognize that things don’t have to be perfect to be put together. I love how you encourage all of us who read you to be confident that we can all find our own sense of style!
Hi Jennifer, I stumbled on your blog posts about six months ago and am so glad I did! You give excellent advice on wearing clothes, exploring styles and the good and bad of what is out there for women over 50. While my mind feels like I’m still 25- 30, my body no longer fits many of those styles! I live vicariously through your posts and the different stores you frequent for your posts. Your opinions and experience are invaluable to me, a person who has never set the fashion world on fire. I also appreciate your commentary on products for hair and skin care. Thanks for all your work!
Jennifer, I read your blog because I relate to you. We are the same age and our style is very similar. I feel sure that if we met, we would be friends. You are honest and wear nice things but mostly they are not over the top expensive. I like seeing what you really wear even if it’s not new and how you style it. Thanks for doing such a good job and making us relevant.
I read 3 blogs, including yours. Each of you has a different style but all appeal to me and help me be more creative about the way I dress. It is hard getting older. People treat older w.omen differently and not in a good way. Your blog validates that we are still interesting women with something to share and say. Your topics and concerns help me learn how to cope with my older body. Your values and upbeat attitude help me feel the world is a happier place than other media presents.
I enjoy the clothes you wear and I’ve purchased a number of the items. Many work for me too – even though I’m 5’10” and 175 pounds! I like that you are trying items on regularly as I don’t get into the stores often, so your sizing advice is useful (I order online). I like to be current, if not trendy (I just turned 60 so I’m over that sorry). I guess the best reason I keep reading is you come across as real, current, accessible and fun!
I have been following you for years and I like your relatable style. We’re about the same age; while you are in the north , I’m in the south of California. You are not trendy like some other bloggers I follow; I appreciate classic and traditional clothing and usually avoid “what’s hot” at the minute. I have noticed some of my favorite bloggers seem to be going off the deep end with promoting brands, beauty products and diet programs. I like that you don’t hop on every trend yet stay current and stylish. Keep up the good work!
I started following you years ago when I wanted a relatable woman to get advice from. I was also following Brenda until the end. I thoroughly enjoy the aspect of a well rounded womans opinion with the daily realities of life thrown in. Your travel, lifestyle and gentle advice, not pushed on us is fun to follow. When you visit Vanessa and Honey Pug, it feels like catching up with a friend. I am quite different in looks, taller, rounder and curly grey hair, but I like how I can get suggestions to adapt to my look as well. I may not like all that you show us, but that is because it would be a pretty boring life if we all dressed the same and I love to imerse myself in fashion of any sort. The posts that you do for items that you have tried are not pushed on us but rather a suggestion of what might be worth a try. I have been enjoying your dive into colour and stye and how different the outcome of a virtual and in person analysis can be, and do look forward to the explanation of your recent ones. When you add in the medical issues of you and your husband, it shows your openness to explain what is going on in your life and in some cases may lead to a better outcome for your readers. I am from southern Ontario in Canada and live in a very different climate, but love to read about your lifestyle. Thank you for all the effort you put in to keep us all connected.
I do enjoy reading your blog. I like when bloggers are more down to earth and tell what is good and bad going in their lives, this resonates with more people than you realize. Thank you.
Jennifer—Your blog is my favorite. It is instructive, warm, positive and often funny!
I learn a lot from the dressing room try ons where you explain why an outfit is flattering or not. I am interested in your favorite cosmetics, skin and haircare products. I also enjoy hearing about your travels and family.
My goals are to create a flattering and comfortable wardrobe. I recently moved
across the country ( United States ) and it’s a little lonely. Your cheerful blog gives
Me a boost every morning! Tracy
I love your blog! You dress more casually than other bloggers I follow. I like that you give sizing for all your clothes. I enjoy your travel stories!
Jennifer, initially I followed you and a few others, but eventually lost interest in them and remained with your blog only. So many reasons: yours is always a more polished look, one which aligns with my own style; your choices are mostly within my budget; I’ve learned so much about accessorizing pieces, which has increased my fashion sense and confidence; you write well, a skill this teacher applauds; your photographs with various background settings are always interesting; you move beyond clothes snd suggest cosmetics and the hair products for thinning hair which I now use and love; you come across as your readers’ ally and friend, not some distant expert. So thanks for all you do, Jennifer. You’re doing a great job!
I follow your blog for many of the reasons mentioned below and I particularly love that you talk about being an inverted triangle in body shape like me. I’m as happy as you to see the skinny pants take a break from popularity! Ps I love you have Canadian roots too and enjoyed your stories visiting Vancouver.
I enjoy your blog because I like your style and sense of fashion. I’m also in my 60’s and really like getting outfit ideas from you. I enjoy your fitting room room try-ons and your blog is short; they’re not too long and don’t lose me. And I too have short, fine hair and aging skin. Keep up the great work!
I live in the great state of Virginia!
I love your blog and find that you are particularly practical in your outlook. I have purchased several items that you have recommended and love each of them. Many of them are from Talbots which is a store that I rarely frequented in the past and now love – clothes from there really fit me. I haven’t dropped any other blogs, but yours is the one I read first!
Thanks for everything!
Hi Jennifer,
I follow your blog because I love seeing someone in my age range discuss fashion and health/beauty. You’re not a 5’10”, size 2, 16 year old runway model, but a real person, a real size. I like that you’re real about health, beauty and fashion for real women. I enjoy your DRD and “Would you wear it?” posts. It’s fun to read your take, but also the input of other women. (Plus you shop at the same stores, by and large, that I favor. 🙂 You resonate with me.
I recently found your blog and I find your fashion sense is very similar to mine. I was looking for a blog that gave fashion tips to mature women without making us look like “old ladies”. I want to look current but not trendy. Your blog tends to point me in that direction. Even some of the other ladies blogs that are geared towards over 50 or even over 60, are frequently a bit “old lady-ish” to me. Also, I live in Arizona .
I follow your blog because everything you comment on seems relevant to me. I am 70 (so hard to actually commit to that number) but would like to think that I am more vibrant, youthful, and aware than that age indicates. So much of your content is realistic (looking chic in flats) and pertinent to me. And, you manage all of this while looking stylish and awfully attractive! Thanks for your hard work. I am a dedicated follower.
Good morning!! I follow your blog because you are down to earth and it’s like reading something from a friend. Your ideas are great and very informative. Some of the other blogs make me feel rather inferior while yours doesn’t do that. You’re an inspiration, a very attractive and friendly woman and I am proud to call you my “online friend”.
I have been following you for some time now. I keep following you because I don’t get the sense that you are “selling” me stuff that you don’t fully endorse. You scour the “shops” and find things for us to consider, but don’t tip over into pushing product for advertisers. Totally understand and accept that you make commission on the links we follow and purchase, and that advertisers send you things to showcase, but you do so with integrity. That sets you apart
I enjoy your blog as your style was
my style purchased from my favorite store Talbots followed by AT then I switch to JJ where you go to Nordstrom(not a local store for me). You validated I was doing alright and gave me tips and broadened my limited horizons somewhat. I am 74 blonde (natural)and recently put on a lot of weight post COVID which I’m struggling hard to lose but still 12lbs to get back to my usual. I am an ex-patriated Scot now living in MA, USA which explains my penchant for the more tailored looks of Talbots and AT as Europeans are dressier than Americans. However Talbots is loosing ground as petite lengths are no longer short and quality is dropping daily and as a retired person except for 1 day a week I need more casual clothes for travel and that is where your input is most helpful and ensure I don’t end up looking like mutton dressed up as lamb. With leggings and jeggings the norm out there it’s a scary world!
You look as unlike me as anyone could. I eat meat and live in the Midwest (although I also have a daughter in Vancouver). My hair isn’t really thin or blonde. But you shop at the same places that I like. And I love your dressing room diaries. Early in my reading of your blog, you led me to Banana Republic, which I never would have tried before. Your blog is relatively easy to read – there is no distraction from popping ads and stuff. You admit to not being perfect and gaining weight – I read one blog which I do like but the author always says one bite of a dessert is as good as a whole one, an idea I simply can not subscribe to. I like how your blog is regular – every day there’s something new from you. You don’t have too much content – some seem to. Over time I can say I only read yours reliably. I do wish you’d show some of the things you’ve knit as I am also an active knitter. Please keep up the good work and help me add to my wardrobe!!
I like your blog because you offer a variety of clothes in different price ranges and I like your style. You always look well put together without going over the top. My style is casual and you show how to kick it up a notch. I am not retired yet but I can’t wait until that day comes. I live in Texas.
I’m 61 years old and still can’t believe it! I like your style, and I also have fine, thinning hair. I started taking collagen when I saw it mentioned in your blog around 8 months ago, and after 4 months I really saw a change. My doctor even said that she’s seen positive changes in bone density tests due to collagen. I have my bone density test coming up, so we’ll see! You’re also the same height and weight and have the same coloring that I do, so it’s easy to imagine what the clothes will look like on me. BTW, even though you don’t like to wear color, it really brightens up your face when you do. That shirt looks great on you. Lastly, you’re not pushing a specific brand or product. Thanks !
Your style and age are similar to mine, and I really enjoy your dressing room posts. It is great to see how an item looks on, as it doesn’t always look the same on the hanger. You don’t go in for the latest style fad, and stick to what brings out the best in you. You seem honest and down to earth with what you share and I share you thinning hair issues, so find solace in not being alone! You are just very relatable!
You make my day better.You deal honestly with what life offers and make it more fun with fashion.
I love reading your blog! Your outfits are perfect for women our age. I particularly enjoyed the blog about comfortable shoes. I am all about comfort. I miss the video chats you did with the other 3 blogs. They were fun to watch and listen to. I hope they start up again soon!
Like the others, “real” and “relatable” are the keys. I am another Midwestern petite who needs to lose weight (I went from a 14 to a 10 a few years ago but statistically should be a 6) and was born loving clothes. I do and have read other fashion blogs but drift away from them and find yours and the problems you solve the most real-world and practical yet fun and up to date. I see us all as artists and we are our own canvases.
I keep reading because 1. You don’t preach! I want a fashion/ lifestyle blog without political or religious interference.
2. You know what you’re talking about. Probably your background, bit I think you have a good eye too.
3. You’re younger than I am, but still within a decade. I’m retired and leading a very different life in the middle of Connecticut than when I was commuting to NYC in my black pantsuits and heels! You’ve given me lessons ( unintentionally I’m sure) on how to be casual and stylish at the same time.
4. Even thoughI can’t wear a lot of the colors you wear ( dark hair, light eyes, soft winter coloring) and am 4” shorter (!) I’ve been able to take your cues and put myself together in my own palette.
5. Not everything you show is super expensive. That’s not realistic on a fixed income. You’ve directed me to lots of bargains without sacrificing quality.
6. You include personal information without going overboard. It makes your blog human and relatable.
Sharing issues you deal with from your hair and your lovely daughter in Canada to more serious medical issues makes me care the way no amount of pretty clothes can. You project likability without sacrificing your opinions. Soft sell really works!
7. Your readers are delightful. So if you edit them, well done. But if these are just the women who follow you and express opinions, you’ve drawn a good group.
So that’s why I’ve stayed and will continue to stay. Even if you wear leggings or not-really-straight leg pants occasionally. And, frustratingly, show clothes that aren’t made in petite sizes!
Bravo, Jennifer, I’m a fan.
Like your blog. You present focused information yet give us a glimpse into real life issues. You always seem upbeat — love your smile! I enjoy the different ideas you have for styling the items you are presenting. The clothing you talk about is varied but realistic in style, shape, color even though I am lots older. Although many of the pieces are more expensive than I would buy, it gives me ideas of what to look for in resale shops or at lower price points. I like that you post frequently. I wish I could find a blogger who writes like you but with a body shape more like mine, which is the opposite of you, since styles that look so wonderful on you would not look the same on me. I live in the midwest.
Good morning from southern middle Tennessee! And, yes, there are bloggers that I quickly scan and move on. Too edgy, or too conservative, or too much of the same stuff day after day! But most of the time I will spend some time with you! Your sense of style and life seems to speak to me plus you seem like a person I could set and chat with, really easily! I like that you do not allow yourself to get in a rut and stay there! You do add trends that work for you and can possibly work for me; you share real aging issues, I.e. hair thinning, hand issues, (I just went thru successful trigger finger surgery ). I think we could relate!
First of all I adore your outfit, it really suits you and I too am a big fan of neutrals. Your style is probably the closest to mine that I have found with any blogger, even though I hardly ever wear jeans and have different colouring and body type and live in a different climate (southern Ontario, Canada) LOL. I appreciate your style and colour background and your expertise shows through your with your writing and explanations of why and why not something works. DRD is a particular favourite, as going into a dressing room to try items on hasn’t been possible for much of the last 1 1/2 years.
I also like that you experiment with skin care and cosmetic products rather than pushing one line.
I discovered your blog in 2015 when I first discovered fashion blogs, and followed a few out of curiosity, but over the years, yours is the one I read daily now for the above reasons.
And you always have something interesting to say or show.
I follow your blog because you provide objective style advice at all price points. Your style is timeless and early on you made sure this was a safe place to engage in conversations about aging. You give parts of your life which helps remind us you are living in the same world and these concerns are universal.
I continue to read your blog because you post almost every day and it gives me great ideas and inspiration. Other blogs tend to disappear over time and leave their followers behind. I like your dressing room and mannequin features in particular. Live in Florida now so please keep us in mind for some lighter weight outfits. Thanks!
I must echo the other readers for reasons I read your blog! We are of similar age, size and life style. The brands and price points work for me and you always seem to give honest and helpful feedback about why a look or fit works or could be restyled to suit. I have discontinued several other bloggers because there are too many of them and their content is frequently one long sponsored advertisement. I truly hate “Amazon Hauls” and in several years of following you, I don’t believe you have ever done one. Thank you!!
I like your blog because you wear clothing very similar to my style. Causal but polished. I love neutrals. I like the stores you shop at. I like to see the clothes on a real person. I am from South Carolina, USA
I enjoy your try on sessions with a “real person” wearing the clothes. I love your motto – wear what makes you happy. The clothes you work with are in my budget. Thank you for all of your hard work.
In addition to many of the other commenter reasons I like that you explain why a style works for a body type. You educate rather than tell.
Good morning, Jennifer. Thank you for asking these questions. I will try to answer your questions as briefly & succinctly as possible. I am from the US, and my fashion goals are to look thinner, taller, and “put together” while , at the same time, feel comfortable in my clothing. Since I am 78 years old, I would like to look current but not a like a fashion victim. I consider color my friend because the right colorful outfits seem to provide interest and provoke compliments, which make me feel cheerful. Your fashion blog is my favorite because you seem authentic and you provide fun commentary that is also educational (helping me reach my fashion goals as stated above). Have a GREAT day!
Most of all I appreciate having a place for women of a certain age. We don’t see ourselves on TV, online, in advertising unless in health ads, I appreciate being “seen.” You help keep me current. I live in a rural area and do not have access to malls so it helpful to see clothing I can easily order online and from stores I can visit when I get to a city. Your style is accessible and appropriate wherever one lives. I would enjoy even more insights into your daily life, not just news about clothing—books, decor, holidays, health, hobbies, thoughts about aging, creating a fulfilling at home life.
I am retired and had begun for feel like the “invisible woman”. After I started following your blog, I started challenging myself to try new things and felt how wonderful it was to stay current. I don’t want to give up!
I also love to read all the comments that follow each blog. I find that I relate to so many of these ladies too.
Life is too short to be complacent! Thank you !
USA
You show a lot more clothing than some others do. The Dressing room diary is
Especially helpful. Also like, would you wear it segment.
My body height is different;
So when you, at 5’4”, are modeling a regular size, rather than petite, I know that the garment won’t work for me. Saves me shopping time!
And, by the way, you make an excellent model.
Thanks so much!
There is a lot that keeps me a loyal follower. I feel that you have experience and keep learning and sharing with us. I follow bloggers like you to get a realistic viewpoint from someone who appreciates style and looking chic. I like your approach to sharing outfits and other thinking about how to put it together. I sometimes use that to “shop my closet”. I like the mix of retailers and that you dress to flatter your body and style. I am looking at retirement in about 4 years, and decluttering my wardrobe. I am eliminating what does not flatter, fit, or serve me well anymore. I am no longer buying work clothes, and selling things that I know I will not wear in retirement. I also like your writing style and that you are warm and professional.
All the outfits you show are very wearable and affordable. I enjoy when you restyle looks to fit your taste. Our taste in clothes are very similar. When you make comments, your not “preachy “ like some bloggers and you leave room for different opinions. I agree with Nyla, you are someone I could be friends with!
I followed Brenda Kinzel (RIP) for years and believe she turned me on to you.
Your blog addresses all the issues we all have at this stage (am 67) in our lives honestly and without the drama.
Because of your blog, I also read Over 50 Feeling 40, 50s Not Old and Style At A Certain Age. I also follow Susan After 60 (for years) but she’s considerably cut back on posts. 😕 All worthy sites for the every day woman who’s pretty darn special.
My fashion style is fairly conservative yet classy. While petite and mildly obese (according to the charts…ha!) your tips still apply, I just have to shop petites. Side note: Would love to also follow someone this age who is petite and based in the Upper Midwest instead of a warm climate so any recommendations appreciated!
Keep up the good work; appreciate your efforts!
God bless the USA!
I love the confidence and style you share and your encouraging other women like myself (over67) to feel that’s expressed and shown! In your blog!
As someone else has mentioned you are so relatable, Jennifer. Everything you write about and highlight is in good taste, and yet modern. You remind us that we are women, first and foremost. Some of us are retired yet still moms, grandmothers – others are working out of the home. Your fashion sense and real life approach to your blog is just that— real! Another aspect is your reminder that we are often fragile suffering from unseen health or orthopedic issues. Self care is the order of the day when these issues crop up. It’s all real!
Agree with Paulette! You share your vulnerability with us: foot problems, asked us for shoe advice and through the comments, learned of a few new great shoe brands! Learn from others. I am 49 yrs old and try to be fashionable, not frumpy or living in athleisure. Following you from Alberta 🇨🇦
Love this jacket. Wish they had it in petite.
Shop at many of the same stores you do.Love your affordable style and I’m in your age group.Keep up the good work!
Hi Jennifer,
I read your blog because you have a sensible approach to fashion. Your style is easy going, you don’t try to dress “young” but you never look “old” if that makes sense? You don’t bend to trends that don’t work for you because you know who you are and you just want to be your best you. Thanks for taking us along for the ride!
Apologies in advance for a long post.
First, I did stop reading all fashion blogs, including yours, as part of my effort to be more mindful about my wasteful overconsumption of clothing. It was hard to buy less when regularly reading what I could buy. Yet, I find myself lurking on only your blog for several reasons.
I appreciate your concerns about the impact of the fashion industry on our environment. Still, I want to look nice and get ideas about sustainable choices in clothing.
You are honest. You don’t “love” everything you share, and you don’t endorse ideas or products that don’t work for you.
Your blog is not one long ad by a sponsor. Don’t misunderstand – I realize blogs are enormous work and bloggers should be rewarded for their time and effort. But when the majority of content is an appeal for the same services or sponsors, it feels like reading a commercial. Your use of sponsored ads is reasonable and your endorsements are authentic.
So, Jennifer, you are stuck with me.
Late to the game here but this comment summed up my thoughts very precisely! As a Midwestern woman of a certain age, I find your approach comforting and honest. I, too, am trying to buy sustainable clothing only occasionally and make do with what I have. But you give me styling ideas (and purchasing ideas to fill in the gaps of my wardrobe) and you are one of two blogs I continue to follow.
You seem “real” and like a friend…I enjoy you. The clothes you feature are appropriate for my stage of life. We are close in age. Your clothing items are at the right price point for me and you use accessible vendors. I really like the way you style clothes…you give me great ideas. I’m learning a lot about style from you. I also enjoy your advice on beauty and health products. You are fun!
Thank you!
I still haven’t recovered from the shock of seeing you in the bright, multicolored top the other day, ha! I think I reach for your blog first every day because it is a warm conversation. You write so smoothly about the health, style, and everyday topics that interest me; I really have learned so much from you. I appreciate so much all of your hard work for all of us.
P.S. I am from the country of North Carolina which truly is its own world.
Meme—
North Carolina is a state, not a country! The USA is the country!
AM
I enjoy your blog because I like your style. I’m close in age and coloring and your posts/photos give me style ideas on looking current not trendy. I really enjoy “would you wear it”. I’m in the US.
I follow you because your style, age, issues and clothing goals are the same as mine. Your shopping price point and the stores you shop are also in my wheelhouse. All of this makes you relatable to me in my day to day life which keeps me coming back for more. Thank you for doing what you do with your blog—it’s great!
I’m originally from England and now live in the States. Being new to fashion blogs l started following you in spring 2020 and l now read you every day. I really like your warmth and honesty hearing about your world, and your amazing style sense. Since following you my appreciation for style and clothes has increased enormously. You could be my dear next door neighbor whom l have known forever, and l have come around again to see you and chat. The blog is fun, passionate,smart, relevant and being 57 l feel l need the emphasis on ‘real life living and solutions’. You highlight clothes that l can afford, or reasonably aim for, and you introduce me to labels and stylist tricks that really elevate my look. I also enjoy and value being part of the community and reading the responses. Keep going strong Jennifer AWSL is a joy to read xo
Really nicely put, Francesca! Additionally, Jennifer, I really like that your blog is as much about us as it is about you. My style and coloring are completely different from yours, and yet your styling, tips, and comments make me come back every day to read what you have to say. Also, you have a strong work ethic, which is really important to me. You are genuine in a time when many are not. (I live in the Northeast.)
I follow you because you present yourself as a real person, not perfect but perfectly imperfect like the rest of us! I like to see how the clothes drape on your body and I enjoy your chatty style. You have helped me elevate my wardrobe and I appreciate that. So thank you!
I don’t follow any other blog. Your’s appeals to me because of the neutrals, with splashes of color. I like that you have varying price points. Left to my own devices, I would only shop at Nordstrom’s and only buy NYDJ and Vince Camuto.
I look forward to your blog with my morning coffee and at that time of the day I like the kindness and that there is NO snarkiness. I can’t deal with rudeness or sarcasm that early in the morning!
I would like to see more clothes and products for people with sensitive skin. All synthetics cause me issues, so highlighting when the clothes are cotton would be a plus for me. Right now, I am struggling to find thin cotton base layers to wear under otherwise unwearable itchy sweaters.
I started following your blog because I am the same age as you are and I saw a post where you were showing how you style your hair. Your hair and mine are the same! I was happy to find that I am not alone in the difficulties with super fine, super straight, thinning hair and I always look forward to your posts regarding how you care for yours and any new and helpful products you might have come across. I also enjoy the fashion info every day. So, I am a regular follower now.
I love your blog because we have similar taste in style and hair. I like how you show how you style your hair and make up. You have great fashion ideas. Have you ever shared your diet, exercise routine and any supplements?
I particularly enjoy that styling outfits is at the heart of your blog, and that you draw on years of professional experience when sharing your perspective. I appreciate how you remain open to new ideas and trying new styles (Right now, am looking forward to hearing about your recent colour analysis and your reaction to it). Through your blog, I am honing my own eye for styling, even though I have a different seasonal palette, silhouette and style to you. That’s been fun for me – and a nice distraction during a very long lockdown in Melbourne, Australia.
While other bloggers may share styles from many of the same retailers as you do, you also share your very helpful styling expertise. The retailers you represent are accessible to me with prices in my budget. Thank you, Jennifer.
Hi Jennifer. I read your blog because I like your style and I get ideas for my wardrobe here. I also enjoy your stories and your frank description of issues— health, hair, and otherwise— that are the same issues we all face as we get older. You are relatable and I like that. Keep blogging!
You seem more like a good friend talking all things confident. Clothes are in my price range. Bottom line you talk to me n not at me
I follow your blog because you shop at stores I like, and for the most part, your spending is reasonable. I like that you are not hawking products or trying to sell your readers on lifestyle choices such as diets and exercise plans. You come across as poised and confident, yet real.
Your blog is my favorite because you are honest about the products and clothing you present. You are also honest about your appearance, i.e., you don’t photoshop your pictures to make yourself look better which matters a lot to me. Your honesty and comfort in your own skin encourages me to try the things you try and wear the things you wear which reflect my style. I learn a lot from you!
Thank you!
I appreciate the tweaks you make to clothes that are similar to what I would wear. You have wearable ideas. Thank you!
I like seeing you model the fashions even in the store without purchasing them. Which I feel is different than other places just trying to sell their product. Not all of us can afford to buy all the fashion trends. I don’t follow other fashion bloggers because they are not realistic, and not moderate in their clothing. At my age I don’t need everything hanging out but something flattering. I am in an area that does not have access to a lot of the stores you shop at like Ann Taylor and banana republic so therefore I would have to buy clothes online which are hard to try on. Size guidelines also help when buying clothing online. Keep up the good work I enjoy your Well styled life. Someone once told me I was a well-kept woman, lol, that’s debatable.
I continue to read your blog because the style choices you share fit with my lifestyle. They look pulled together and current but are not too trendy. They are at reasonable price points and from stores I already shop at. Your tone and approach are very real. My goals are to keep my wardrobe updated, find new ways to style things I already own and identify the pieces I might want to buy to fill in gaps or update an outfit. Your style resonates with me, although we don’t have a lot in common physically. I live in the Mid-Atlantic area of the US.
Your style is similiar to mine, your choices are in my price range, your hair is thin and fine like mine, and you show your relatable side—health scares, aging, moving, etc. You make yourself sound like a neighbor or work friend.
Yes, exactly!!
(in the USA)
Exactly my thoughts!!
Susan
USA
Exactly what I was going to say, Nyla! We have the same taste and concerns!
Couldn’t have said it any better!
(Also in the USA, although for the longest time I thought you (Jennifer) hailed from Canada!)
Could not have said it better and you are HONEST!
I started following Brenda Kinsel, and then started looking for women bloggers closer to my coloring, I’m a summer, fair, with grey hair, and close to my age. I follow a few English/ European/ and younger bloggers, as I like a variety of styles, even though I’m from California. I like the combo of reality, curiousness, humor, and low key sell of your blog.
DRD helped tremendously during lockdown and online purchasing.
Thanks, and keep up the good work.