Weekend Reading: 05.31.25
Happy weekend, ladies. I’ve been missing in action more than usual this week because, frankly, I’m exhausted. I hope a nice relaxing weekend will restore my energy.
I’ve also pulled way back on my Instagram posting as well because the churn has been wearing me out. The message used to be, “Here’s what I love and why I wear it”. Now it’s, “Here’s what to buy before it sells out”. And while we are on the subject…when did needing to own something because all the “cool girls” are wearing it become a thing? Seriously, influencers in their 50s are using this messaging! I’m not a girl…I don’t want to look like everyone else, and I find this kind of message to be the death knell of personal style.
I’ll have to return to the platform because my business demands a social media presence, but I plan to be very careful because I want the experience to enrich me rather than make me feel lacking.
Fashion On My Radar…not a cool-girl in sight 😉
- I’ve worn my old Eileen Fisher shirtdress twice in as many weeks and predict I’ll wear it a lot more this summer. (this one is similar, but mine has a collar). That means I need a comfy sandal to wear with it that’s not dorky, so the hunt is on. This Pixie is in the running, as is this Gabor. Both have a tiny wedge and a feminine vibe.

- I pulled out my oversized resin/lucite link necklace yesterday and loved it! It’s a perfect weight for summer and added a fun touch to my look. Mine is from Talbots several years ago but lots of brands make similar. I’m now on the hunt for a bracelet in other colors. I adore this bangle in charcoal, but my hands are too large to go through most, so I’d prefer a hinged one or a chain that I can open and close. All ideas welcome!
- I still have my eye on this casual cotton dress with sleeves. I hestitated long enough that my size is now sold out in blue, so I ordered the black.
Your Favorite Bestsellers
- This pretty stripped neck sweater with a coastal vibe was very popular this week.
- My Brigitte wide-leg pants were also a big hit. Mine weren’t ready to pack when we left for Vancouver, so they’re still in California and I miss how comfy and polished they are.
- I lot of readers also loved this striped maxi from J.Crew Factory.
- This brow gel was one of the most popular items this week and I know you will love it as much as I do!
- Quite a few of you also took advantage of the sale on my beautiful blue EF cotton sweater.
Spotted on sale
Nordstrom Half-Yearly sale is still on and has some great things left to shop. I assume they are clearing out for the Anniversary sale which will be here before we know it. Here are some accessories I spotted:
J. McLaughlin’s Spring sale is on with up to 50% off. This classic shirtdress is included and it has sleeves! You may see a trend for me…I am on the hunt for dresses with sleeves.
DSW has BOGO (buy one get one) 40% off summer sandals, which is a great time to replace sandals that got worn out last summer.
Thanks for reading, and do something wonderful for yourself this weekend.

I am so fussy about my bangs – literally get 1/4 inch cut off
I like your bangs like that. Very fresh looking.
Thanks
Please look after yourself. We can all get to the stage when our ‘get up and go’ gets up and goes! Hopefully your time in Vancouver will recharge your batteries.
I think we are all guilty of self trims on our hair when necessary.
I don’t check Instagram – I have a hard enough time keeping up with blogs and vlogs plus religious reading! I had a Breton stripe t on a few weeks ago…and so did two other ladies along the way, and I don’t want to “see myself coming and going,” as they used to say. I do consider all the things I see but am trying to decide what is right for me and I have to say, it can be hard not to be influenced or think twice about an item that is disparaged by an influencer. Obviously, I visit all these sites b/c I am interested in what to wear but want to make sure I’m not foolishly following advice and buying things that aren’t right for me. Aside, wish Naot came in wide width!