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Treating My Dry Eyes

Treating My Dry Eyes

The older I get the dryer my skin becomes but what bothers me the most is my dry eyes. I’ve been struggling with it for years.

It turns out dry eye is a huge problem for older women and many of us suffer from it. When I say suffer, I mean it. My eyes often feel like they have sand in them, they itch, frequently tear and just plain hurt.Jennifer Connolly of A Well Styled Life's dry eye

My previous eye doctor suggested I wash my eye’s with baby shampoo and apply warm compresses using a damp facecloth for ten minutes at a time. That didn’t help. The facecloth would get cold too fast, the baby shampoo was drying out the skin around my eyes and my eye’s remained dry.

I read everything I could on the subject. I added extra fish oil supplements, switched to preservative free eye drops, upped my water consumption and changed my blood pressure medication to one that did not include a diuretic. Still, no relief.

I finally dragged myself to a new eye doctor for a proper diagnosis. He numbed my eye’s and did multiple weird tests before he concluded…I have chronic dry eye. Duh!

He also told me I have meibomian gland dysfunction. These are the glands in our upper and lower eyelids that secrete oils onto the surface of our eyes which keep our tears from evaporating too quickly. These glands often become blocked as we age and can cause or worsen dry eye.

He didn’t suggest Restasis or Xiidra because they’re expensive, are seldom covered by insurance and his patients have mixed results. He agreed a washcloth was not a great way to apply warm compresses to the eye and suggested I try this microwavable eye compress.bruder eye compress for dry eye

Let me tell you, it is nothing short of amazing.

I heat it in the microwave for 15 seconds, put a clean tissue over my eyes and lay back to relax. The compress comes with a few disposable sheets to put between your eye and the compress to keep it sanitary. When those ran out I just substituted a clean tissue.Jennifer of A Well Styled Life laying on the couch using Bruder Eye Compress

When I remove the eye mask, my vision is totally blurry. Luckily I knew this might happen so I didn’t panic. #neurotic It simply meant the oil from my eye glands had melted and was flowing properly so it could help moisturize my eyes.OCuSOFT eye wipes on A Well Styled Life

I’ve also added these wipes to my eye care. After I’ve removed my makeup and washed my face, I use these to ensure every bit of eye makeup is gone. I’m always surprised to find a trace of makeup on these because I thought I’d already removed it all.reatine eye gel and eye drops on A Well Styled Life

I now have several brands of preservative-free eye drops which come in these one-use disposable tubes. They’re all single use so I have them scattered in every purse, in my car, and by my desk. I discovered these retaine MDG drops seem more moisturizing than most. I keep a tube of this retaine PM gel on my bedside table and put a small amount of this gel in my eye’s when I go to sleep.retaine eye drops on airline flight

Dryer than usual conditions is still a challenge for me. When we flew to the east coast yesterday, I had several vials in my purse and kept one on my tray table to use every 30+ minutes. These vials are single use only but my eye DR said it was OK to recap and use for up to 3 hours.

It may seem like a lot of trouble to go to but my eyes are finally feeling better. I’m not cured…there is no cure but my dry eyes feel better now than they have in several years.

Do you have dry eyes?

Please share what you use for them.

Thanks for reading and have a great day.

 

 

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68 Comments

  1. Beth B
    May 2, 2019 / 3:43 am

    I’m glad to know about the wipes to remove all traces of makeup. I’ve been using Refresh disposable eye drops with Flaxseed Oil and they’re a huge improvement over the ones without the added oil. Thank you for this post. It’s a help to those of us with dry eye.

  2. Carol
    May 2, 2019 / 3:59 am

    The wipes and using a tissue under the eye mask (which I’ve just begun to use) are great tips. I love the individual use drops, but when I mentioned to the Dr. that I wasn’t a fan of the pm “drops” (more of a gel?) because it is blurry after I use them, she suggested I alternate each night (i.e. use one night in left eye, the next in right) which has made me more compliant about using them. Thanks for the post!

  3. Joy Grayson
    May 2, 2019 / 4:15 am

    Thank you for this! I have had one very dry eye since I had a reaction to my contact lens solution several years ago. I will try the heated eye mask and look for some better eye drops.

  4. May 2, 2019 / 4:17 am

    I’m finding this so interesting. Thank you for sharing…..

  5. kate
    May 2, 2019 / 4:26 am

    using Xiidra helps how do you know it’s not covered? yr Dr. can “plead yr case”
    will try that mask though

  6. Georgiann Wilkins
    May 2, 2019 / 4:30 am

    I also have dry eyes which is much in the winter. Although I was taking omega 3 when I changed to a higher quality brand an it definitely improved the dry eye condition.

  7. May 2, 2019 / 4:35 am

    I have Sjorgrens and one of the symptoms is dry eyes. I use Restasis and it has made a huge difference to my over all eye moisture. It is covered by our medical insurance and I am grateful for that. I hate a windy day, the fan on in the car… and I wear glasses to help protect my eyes from the air movement in planes etc. I have vials of eyedrops everywhere…pockets of my coats, my purse, tin the kitchen… I also use the eye “beanbag” before I head to bed. It is so relaxing I often fall asleep with it still on. Life just seems to get more interesting with age!! I know there are people out there dealing with issues much bigger than this one… but it was good to read your post on dry eyes… I can really relate.🤗

  8. Susan
    May 2, 2019 / 4:36 am

    I’ve had dry eyes for years. Hurt and sting like crazy! And I get a film over my eyes at times. My eye doctor said my tears aren’t wet enough…I got some relief from adding 3000 mg of fish oil , but I realized that the dry eyes were also allergy-eyes! My doctor gave me Singulair to take at night and FloNaz for morning. Much improved. I will add the eye compress. Thanks for sharing!

  9. Sharon
    May 2, 2019 / 4:50 am

    I have found extraordinary relief from dry eyes from Xiidra. Many eye doctors are given coupons for reduced prices to hand out to their patients. I use the tubes for 2 applications and occasionally use a non preservative eye drop during the day especially if it’s windy. Xiidra has changed my life – no more agony, blurred vision, sand in my eyes feeling. It works immediately, no build up time required. That’s my story.

    • Elaine Luman
      May 2, 2019 / 12:32 pm

      I tried all of those things your doctor said to do. I have punctal (sp?) plugs and now have been on Xiidra for a little over a year. It has worked much better for me than Restasis. Both are very expensive! Some days I still have to use a lot of sterile eye drops. I also have to put something in them a night. Evidently, this is going to be a lifetime battle. I may give the moist heat compress a try!

  10. Shirley
    May 2, 2019 / 5:01 am

    I also have “dry eye syndrome” ,for many years. Have used drops from A to Z! Work for a period of time….then must move to a different one. I got the most relief after my eye Dr. plugged my tear ducts. At times the plugs come out and have to be replaced. It really helps the dryness but also causes tearing. Hard to explain how uncomfortable this eye problem can be!
    Thanks for letting me know I’m not alone!

  11. Elizabeth
    May 2, 2019 / 5:09 am

    I also have Dry Eye/Blepharitis. I was diagnosed several years ago and was referred to an ophthalmologist after treatments recommended by my optometrist were not enough. The microwavable eye pack works very well as do Systane preservative-free night time gel and OasisTears preservative-free drops (used before I get out of bed in the morning). My regime also includes fish oil, Restasis and when really bad, Lotemax, a prescription steroid drop. I stopped Azasite (prescription lid drop) because of a reaction (lid swelling, flaky skin). One tear duct is lasered shut to reduce tear evaporation. It took a while to get things under control and to figure out the best over-the-counter drops/gel to use, but my eyes are better and look better. Now only in extreme situations do I need to use any OTC drops during the day.

  12. May 2, 2019 / 5:25 am

    I have been using SterLids cleaner for my eyelashes and lids. there is something called “eyelash deandruff”, having something to do with not having enough oils around the eyelashes to wash away. The crust which develops is very hard to remove! Too much buildup of this material causes my eyes to itch and burn. Yuck! To combat dry eye, my doctor suggested turning off the ceiling fan at night. This can cause eyes to dry out also. Just a suggestion for you!

  13. May 2, 2019 / 5:37 am

    I wish I had known about this when my father was still alive. The dry eyes bothered him more than anything. Your doctor is right about the expensive drops they don’t work. This is great information. I am pinning it on makeup board even though it isn’t makeup related!

  14. Marlene
    May 2, 2019 / 5:43 am

    Sadly, I’ve had dry eye syndrome for years as well. And, sadder still, is that very little has made much of a difference overall and I’ve tried it all—comfort drops, plugs, fish oil, eye compresses, Xiidra, and Lotamax. Lotamax worked the best, but can’t be used long term, so the battle rages on.

  15. Ellen
    May 2, 2019 / 6:33 am

    I, too, have dry eye and have used Restasis for years, and it works very well for me. When I first started using it, it was covered by insurance and I paid $30 for 3 months of vials. One day, it stopped being covered and the cost shot up to $300!! I still use Restasis but pay way less than $100/month. I have my optician fax my prescription to an online Canadian pharmacy (I did some easy online research on how to find a reliable one) and in a few weeks I get a shipment of Restasis by Allergan, in all the original packaging, for roughly $150 for 90 vials. Many years ago, the opthamologist who originally prescribed Restasis told me that, if the tip of the vial is kept clean, the same vial could be used morning and night and he gave me a little cone of plastic that would hold the vial upright and keep the tip clean. After the price skyrocketed, I again did online research and found out that the medication will stay fresh if refrigerated. This way I get probably about 4-5 uses out of one vial, rather than just 1. That means my supply of 90 vials usually last me about 6-8 months. That helps to bring the cost down to something I can afford and since it has worked so well for me, it is worth it. (Don’t get me started on the insanity of our current prescription drug situation that means I have to go through all these shenanigans.) However, I will definitely try the mask! There are still some really dry winter days here in Michigan when I can use a little extra help.

    • Sheila-Merle Johnson
      May 2, 2019 / 2:28 pm

      Which Canadian pharmacy do yo use?

  16. Barbara Sewell
    May 2, 2019 / 6:38 am

    A friend who also follows your blog suffered from dry eye. From The People’s Pharmacy, I learned that Vitamin D helps. She began taking it and is much better. Simple to do, no pricey prescriptions (or unwanted side effects) and most of us could benefit from some extra D.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:24 pm

      That’s smart. I do take extra vitamin D daily.

  17. May 2, 2019 / 6:48 am

    I too suffer from dry eye. On my doctors recommendation,I now use Nordic Naturals,Ultimate Omega. I did try a less expensive fish oil but felt no improvement in my dry eyes. My eyes are now more comfortable. They are available on Amazon.

  18. May 2, 2019 / 7:01 am

    I have Blepharitis which causes dry eyes. I use Cliradex eyelid wipes. I also stopped wearing any eye make up. Zero. None! Also massaging my eyelids with coconut oil helps.

    Blepharitis is an inflammation of the eyelid. It’s extremely common. Many people have it and don’t know it. It can come and go, it’s related to how well your immune system is fighting things off. It’s easily diagnosed when an optometrist sees an increase in little mites that live at the base of the eyelashes. Those little mites hate tea tree oil, and that’s what’s in the eyelid wipes.

    Bottom line: there are many causes for dry eyes and lots of different remedies. Best to get a doctor’s diagnosis.

    Thanks for this post. I will try some of the products you recommend.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:23 pm

      My Dr checked and says I do not have many of those mites. Everyone has some, but mine seem under control thank goodness. I suspect I have several causes and I do know my immune system isn’t tip-top.

  19. PatB
    May 2, 2019 / 7:28 am

    Thank you great topic. My dry eye problems started over 10 years ago. To the extent I had a scratch on my Cornea, apparently weakened by a paper cut many years before. After a trip to emergency where no eye doctors were on duty, I was referred to a special eye clinic next morning. Visited the hospital every day for week (the parking cost was horrendous) but Dr healed the immediate problem. This is a chronic dry eye condition and I would control it with eye ointment every night. I have used Bausch & Lomb, Muro 128 Ointment 5% ever since. Usually with no need for eye drops as the residual effect last all day for me. Except during our long cold winters and I use a humidifier daily. Had a wake up call with the comment to turn off ceiling fans. We used to sleep in our loft bedroom which was always hot, wish I had realized this many years ago.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:18 pm

      I’ve had several wakeup calls while reading all brilliant readers suggestions. I am so grateful for all of you.

  20. Joan
    May 2, 2019 / 7:38 am

    Great informative post. Thanks so much and glad you’re feeling better.

  21. Debbie
    May 2, 2019 / 7:54 am

    Initially I found the Bruder products because I had a stye. The compress that you put in the microwave works SO much better than a washcloth compress. I also love the OcUSoft products, but I prefer the pump-bottle version to the wipes. I too was surprised that even after using eye makeup remover, there was still some residue which the OcUSoft removed completely. It is really important to clean your eyelids! Then, I had cataract surgery and developed dry eyes, which can be a side-effect of the surgery. It was miserable. Painful, scratchy, felt like there was something in my eye, especially in the morning. I literally cried and even though my vision had been improved with the surgery, I regretted it. It lasted a few months and then cleared up completely, thank goodness. I still use OcUSoft daily and always will.

  22. nancy
    May 2, 2019 / 8:11 am

    I use a contact lens in my non-dominant eye instead of wearing reading glasses (monovision). I do not understand why everyone doesn’t do this, it’s so wonderful. However, after 15 years, this eye is getting dry.
    Clear Care is much better than standard contact solution, if anyone has a need to know.

    I would love to know which fish oil supplement doesn’t make you ill!?!?

  23. Lily
    May 2, 2019 / 8:27 am

    I had just doused my dry eyes with drops before opening your blog! I have that mask. I will have to give it a better try.I have used expensive drops and cheap drops frequently – no real difference. What really helps is just taking an extended break from the computer screen. Do you wear eye make up?

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:16 pm

      Computer time is terrible for dry eyes and yes, I am on mine a lot. I try to take breaks and make a point of blinking more often. I do wear eye makeup but no longer apply it along the lash line.

  24. Beverly Glotzbach
    May 2, 2019 / 8:27 am

    Jennifer, thank you for writing on this topic and for the suggestions from the readers! I, too, have dry eyes made worse from the hormone blocker I must take due to breast cancer treatment. I have been using Refresh drops four times a day with improvement, but not complete success. I am definitely going to try some of the other suggestions. Thank you for covering other topics from time to time besides fashion. We all benefit with sharing ideas!

  25. May 2, 2019 / 9:52 am

    I wear sunglasses from Panoptix and 7Eye. They are basically goggles and are especially useful in the car when the a/c or heater is on. They come with clear lens also for night driving and to wear while drying your hair. Well worth the investment.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:13 pm

      Those sound great for windy conditions too!! Thanks

  26. Anon
    May 2, 2019 / 9:57 am

    It is my belief that people with various dry eye conditions should be checked for endocrine issues by their GPs.

    One of these issues, hyperparathyroifism, is not so rare at all. It involves two blood tests done at the same time: serum calcium and parathyroid hormone. This condition affects mainly women in their 50s and beyond, but it also affects men, and younger men and women.

  27. Erin Willhite
    May 2, 2019 / 10:32 am

    I was diagnosed with Meibomian gland dysfunction and blepharitis a few years ago. I use the microwavable eye mask and love it (you can get them much cheaper at Walmart than at your eye doctor). Also use OcuSoft lid scrub for the blepharitis after using the mask, and HydroEye fish oil twice a day. When I was diagnosed I told my ophthalmologist I was worried about getting all my eye makeup off each day so I wouldn’t clog my glands any further. He suggested I get permanent eyeliner. After I got up the courage to research permanent eyeliner, I had questions about the aftercare routine….a medicated Vaseline on your lids for about a week. I wasn’t sure how that would work with using my eye mask and eye scrub. I called my doctor and he said they don’t recommend permanent eyeliner anymore. Research has show that it can damage the Meibomian gland further. So I’m makeup-less, use my mask and scrub daily and still searching for the perfect eye drop.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:11 pm

      That’s good to know. I was wondering about permanent eyeliner since mine often runs off.

  28. May 2, 2019 / 10:32 am

    I was prescribed Restasis after my Lasik and PRK since I still need a contact lens to see. Drying! I’m on the generic Cyclosporine now, which is much cheaper. I think it helps (mind you, I did not have dry eye before the procedure so I don’t have a true before and after.) My eye docs seem to swear by it. I also swear by the preservative-free drops. Love your honest disclosure as always. Isn’t aging a blast? Xx

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:09 pm

      Oh yeah, nothing easy about aging but the alternative is worse :). xx

  29. Barbara
    May 2, 2019 / 10:36 am

    You have an excellent doctor. My mom went for her yearly exam and was told she has dry eyes, (even though they weren’t bothering her), and the doctor told her it was “urgent” she start using Restasis.
    When I saw the extreme cost of Restasis, I did a quick Google search. It was a surprise to learn Restasis is a target of government lawsuits because the test results were falsified. Other countries deemed Restasis a questionable product that leaves the eye vulnerable to infection, and they refuse to prescribe it.
    Quoted from the article “Pharma Cash Flows to Doctors For Consultant Work Despite Scrutiny,” the article says, “All the money and attention drug representatives shower on doctors has its intended effect: building relationships with doctors and changing how they prescribe.”
    Restasis, apart from ripping off Medicare to the hilt, could have seriously damaged my mom’s eyes. But her doctor was pushing it on her.
    Thanks to the internet, its easy to research one’s medications. But we’re accustomed to trusting the standards of health care in this nation, so we often take whatever is given. Thankfully, your doctor is picky about what goes into your eyes – I wish my mom had a provider like that! Thanks for a very helpful and informative post!!

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:08 pm

      I just read about a lawsuit where several doctors were being prosecuted for taking payoffs from pharmaceutical companies. You’re exactly right, we need to be our own medical advocate and research everything…no matter what a doctor tells us.

  30. Jill
    May 2, 2019 / 10:51 am

    Very timely topic, thank you. OcuSoft Plus does not have to be rinsed off but the original does. I clean my eyes with it at night and in the morning I use the original before I shower. I have stopped all eye makeup and wear dark glasses when outside and when driving. This helps.

  31. May 2, 2019 / 11:03 am

    PRK procedures, 35 years of contact lenses, cataract surgery all contributed to my dry eye. It flares, then dies down. I had Meibo treatments which is hot massage with an instrument on the lid rims done in the doc’s office and got a lot of relief from that. It’s a cheaper version of Lipiflow. They were able to express the glands to get the oil flowing. My doc put me on Xiidra and says he sees results. I don’t know. I use one tube for 3 days because of outrageous cost. I also use the microwaveable compress when it’s bad. One thing I did learn in the past year is that although I don’t have “allergies” my eyes get a seasonal allergy condition. I have a prescription to use when it flares and I have found is that when I thought my dry eye was aggravated, it was more the blepharitis from the allergies. It all never goes away and sometimes (especially when it’s windy) it can keep me home. I use refresh when necessary for bad days and when I get up and go to bed.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:06 pm

      I’ve heard of that eye procedure. I will ask my eye DR about it for me. My insurance is awful and won’t cover Xiidra or Restasis.

  32. Elizabeth
    May 2, 2019 / 11:21 am

    wow…I feel a bit less alone with my dry eye..I am on the extreme side of dry eye, and it took over my life. I do all the things listed above, plus- since I have MGD- I do IPL to help with inflammation and Lipiflow to keep the glands going..I also wear scleral lens to protect my eyes. It took me awhile to find a good doctor, it is important to get diagnosed with the type of dry eye . The doctors who kept up with the latest research have been the most helpful. It is a complicated disease and there are many cause/factors…

  33. Joanna
    May 2, 2019 / 11:47 am

    I don’t have dry eyes but my eyes do water when walking on cold mornings or windy days. I figured it was just part of growing old. It’s not a big problem though.
    Is Rare Objects a good read?

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:02 pm

      It is a good read and I’m enjoying it. I’ve read most of her books.

  34. Kristin
    May 2, 2019 / 12:24 pm

    I’ve found a tea tree oil foaming eyewash very soothing for my dry itchy eyes, along with Refresh lubricant eye drops. Will have to try your microwave eye mask.

  35. M A Wilson
    May 2, 2019 / 12:39 pm

    Here in the UK we have the same problem in our thousands. You should just see the row of bottles and tubes of magic potions purporting to relieve the blasted condition on the shelves of every chemists shop! My doctor and then later on my opthalmologist confessed that there is no cure for chronic dry eye. Nor is there for gout of the bloodstream, or indeed for the fibromyalgia which both grace my person.
    I hadn’t heard of the microwaveable eyepads which I shall try to get hold of over here. The equivalent treatment so far suggested for the nonfunctioning glands in my eyelids was the old washcloth soaked in warm water routine which sort of worked if you don’t mind water trickling down your elbows!
    Optive Fusion eye drops by Allergan are very comforting when the eyes are blurry and hurting and they even help to cushion the irritation caused when uric acid crystals build up under your eyelids. You need to use it multiple times a day though. I can endorse the ultra cleaning methods as an aid to managing this troublesome condition.
    Thank you Jennifer for helping to illuminate such a shadowy area, warmest regards,
    Anne xxx

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 12:01 pm

      I knew we suffered from this and am so grateful for all the wonderful suggestions my readers are sharing.

  36. Beth
    May 2, 2019 / 3:11 pm

    My doctor also recommended the disposable eye scrub towelettes to prevent ducts from clogging and they make a huge difference. I find that make up does aggravate my eyes as I have aged. Thanks for the tip on the microwavable mask. I will try it!

  37. Char
    May 2, 2019 / 3:20 pm

    I was diagnosed with Meibomian gland dysfunction and have had the Lipiflow procedure ($1,500) which helped. My Doctor took x-rays of my glands and it was very interesting to see the glands that were completely destroyed. I use the microwave pads to get/keep the oil flowing. I prefer to use the OcuSoft Original in pump form at home and the pad form for travel. I use Retaine MGD drops. My Doctor recommended the PRN Dry Eye (De) oil pills because he says they are a very good quality. (Bottle says to take 4 daily, but he said to take 2 since they are not cheap). I take Restasis twice daily. Every 6 months he pushes on my lower eyelid and counts the glands that are still secreting oil. If the count is lower than before, he manually expresses the ‘gunk’ out so that the oil can flow. The average amount of glands in each lower eye lid is 40. I have 16 functioning on one eye and 18 functioning on the other eye. It’s also important to BLINK. It’s when you blink that your glands release the oil that keeps your tears from evaporating. I believe a lot of my MGD was caused by working at a computer screen for all of my working years and I continue to spend many hours on the computer in retirement. When you read a book, or stare at a computer screen, you blink less. I now have a reminder that pops up every 20 minutes that tells me to blink.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 11:59 am

      I will look into that PRN oil, thank you for sharing. My eye DR did express my glands and said the bottom seemed ok but the top was too watery so suggested this compress. I do go back in several months so I’ll be curious to see what else he recommends.

  38. May 2, 2019 / 3:52 pm

    Thank you for this helpful post. I’m going to try that eye mask you are using. I bought a bunch of plain white cotton handkerchiefs that I use only for washing my eyes. Regular washcloths seemed to irritate my already irritated eyes even more.

    I have also had to give up all eye makeup, and even foundation or coverstick around my eyes. I can even notice my eyes bothering me more if I use moisturizer too near them, and anything with retinol anywhere on my face really sets my eyes off. Wearing no eye makeup or coverstick under my eyes makes my face look 10 years older. I had Graves Thyroid disease. I wonder if anyone else that has read your post today thinks their dry eyes may be connected to their thyroid disease.

    I’ve been alternating between systane lubricating drops, and most recently Retaine lubricant eyedrops in the little vials. My eye doctor said it would be ok to recap the vial and reuse within the same day, as long as I don’t touch the tip to my eye.

    I have been so tempted to use the opcon A eyedrops that I used in the past for my dry itchy eyes, but I haven’t because the cardiologist said it could affect my atrial fibrillation, there are days when my eyes are bothering me so much, so far I am refraining. My eyes feel like they are congested, maybe it is the oil glands you wrote about, I am definitely trying the eye mask compress you recommended.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 3, 2019 / 11:53 am

      So far my eye Dr has just said to use hypoallergenic eye makeup. I’d have a hard time using no eye makeup because I am so pale. But if it mattered to my health I would do it. Then I would get a slight tint to my lenses so it wasn’t so noticeable.

  39. Debbie C
    May 2, 2019 / 5:21 pm

    Very interesting to learn of all the different methods to care for this problem. I have worn contacts for 50 years, have dry eyes, meibomian gland dysfunction, blepharitis at times. My opthalmologist recommended SteriLid cleanser by TheraTears. Amazon has the best price. I tried the gel drops at night, but didn’t care for them. I use the Refresh Optiv Mega3 drops at night and have noticed a marked improvement in the dryness. I also use moist heat, which helps, along with contact rewetting drops during the day if necessary. When I visit my eye doctor and the glands are noticeably mor clogged than usual, he expresses the glands which releases the lubricating oil from the glands into
    your eyes

  40. Janet
    May 2, 2019 / 7:38 pm

    Wow, Jennifer! This is the best post yet! I was just about to put my eye drops in before going to sleep and read this. I had no idea what an issue this is and all the treatment options. Computer screens I would have guessed but not the ceiling fans I have been sleeping under for 20 years! Saving this post!! Thank you and all who posted!

  41. Kim
    May 3, 2019 / 3:47 am

    Seems there are lots of us with dry eyes! For many years I’ve used OTC TheraTears and have bottles in my purse, car and home. Several years ago I was diagnosed with severe dry eyes and began to use Restasis. Thankfully my medical insurance covers the cost of it. I use the single-dose vials at least 4 times like mentioned here before. The Restasis has helped a lot. I just found out I also have ocular rosacea and was told to continue with my Restasis and to use an eye mask compress similar to yours. I microwave it for 25 seconds and then leave it on for 10 minutes. Love using the eye mask as it’s quite soothing. I asked the ophthalmologist how I could differentiate between the ocular rosacea and pollen/seasonal allergy eyes (for which I use OTC Zaditor eye drops) and she said if my eyes were itchy then it was due to pollen/seasonal allergy. If just gritty then it’s the ocular rosacea.

  42. Dale
    May 3, 2019 / 10:25 am

    Oasis eye drops. Sterile. NO preservatives, period. Individual use packaging with resealable tips for use within 24 hours. Thicker formula available for bedtime use. So soothing. Helps especially when sleeping with an overhead fan in the room. Available only at optical offices or online directly from Oasis (because it contains no preservatives0. Dr. Veronica Barber in Roseville carries it. An optical shop at the Galleria carries it. BEST dry eye relief ever! No side effects or reactions.

  43. Jill
    May 3, 2019 / 3:54 pm

    I too suffer from dry eyes. It seems to be an hereditary condition in my family. My eye doctor advised no eye makeup and to be very careful with any creams or makeup near the eyes. I no longer use makeup, just good hypoallergenic facial cream. I don’t mind at all. I do wear glasses and choose fun frames.
    Since stopping the ey makeup I immediately found my eyes improved. I don’t think we realize how little it takes to irritate our eyes.

    Thank you for the post.

    Jill

  44. Theresa
    May 4, 2019 / 5:55 am

    What a timely post. I have been on Restasis for two years with no improvement. I was sent to an Opthamologist who said he did not care for it. I am currently on steroid drops & over the counter ones. I return in another week for a checkup. I will certainly be asking about these products!

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 5, 2019 / 4:33 am

      Good luck Theresa. Be sure they check for Demodex and the glands in your lids.

  45. NickiC
    May 4, 2019 / 8:34 am

    Jennifer, Thank you so much for this post. I ordered the compression eye masks the minute I finished reading your it. I have suffered with dry eyes for quite a few years. It effects my vision and makes it impossible to wear contact lenses.
    I too have tried most ‘cures’ on the market. I hope the eye masks are a winner for me.
    NickiC

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 5, 2019 / 4:42 am

      It effects my vision too. I hope they help you. I’m hoping to get back to wearing contacts soon. Dry eyes are awful.

  46. May 5, 2019 / 7:26 am

    Restasis is the solution. Period. Twice a week. It’s covered by my Silver Script insurance (Medicare age) and is the easiest, most efficient solution. Have used for five years… and I wear a contact lens in one eye so am very careful!!

  47. Elinora Mantovani
    May 27, 2019 / 3:26 pm

    Thank you, Jennifer, for this VERY timely post! I had no idea what the heck was going on with my eyes, until the eye dr. FINALLY figured out it’s dry eye. (Never had an issue prior to having cataract surgery… wish I had known that dry eye might be a result.) (Too late now!) All the information, from you and all the commenters, is so very helpful. Thanks to all of you! Now, I have a list of possible treatments. (Been using Lotemax … at $185/bottle … and Restayne drops, but I need something better.)

    • Jennifer
      Author
      May 28, 2019 / 9:23 am

      I hope you get some relief Elinora! It’s really painful and so frustrating.

  48. July 6, 2019 / 2:01 pm

    I have sjogrens syndrome, which gets worse with time. I loved all the products you mentioned, but they are quite costly for me at this time. If you or any of your readers have less expensive solutions, I’d love to hear them. My opthamologist is treating me with a steroid drop for now. It is not covered by my insurance and very costly, ay $68 for 28 day supply. I need other ideas that help. Thank you.

    • Jennifer
      Author
      July 6, 2019 / 4:19 pm

      I hate that insurance companies don’t cover meds for dry eye syndrome. Have you looked into ordering them online from a Canadian pharmacy?

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