How Would You Describe A Well Styled Life

Happy Thursday, ladies. I know what A Well Styled Life means to me. Today, I want to know what it means to you. I often say my readers are the best part of this blog, and today I need your insight and advice.

over 50 fashion blogger showing travel outfit of white denim jacket and jeans with scarf

 

So just a few questions I’d love your take on-

  1. How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it?
  2. What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content?
  3. What is your favorite topic that I do cover?
  4. What type of post is the most helpful for you?
  5. Anything else you’d like to share?

Thanks in advance. I’m going to use this input to ensure I stay on track here and continue to provide value to you.

xo

 

 

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185 Comments

  1. This is a difficult question to answer, because there are so many good things to say. Your blog is friendly, informative without being judgmental, encouraging, and relatable. The variety of topics keeps it fresh, and so do the great comments from other readers. It feels like a real community, which is lovely. I intend to tackle my closet next week, and it has me thinking (again) about how my look has changed. I think there is going to be a fairly big purge and I plan to look over some of your previous posts for guidance. I’m realizing what I used to love to wear has really shifted. Thanks for your column… I read it every day! 😊

  2. Rukshana Afia says:

    I live in the UK so would first of all say it is a US fashion blog however the style advice and clothing photos are still relevant not just because everything crosses the pond eastward but also specific garments are increasingly available globally . The writing style of US blogs is always very approachable and this was one recommended by unefemme . I find blogs far more current and useful than fashion magazines but they cater to the same kind of readers and deal with the same subjects . My favourite feature is shared with another recommended blogger – ie “Would you wear it ?”

  3. 1. Thoughtful, creative, fashion-forward and health-conscious, non-judgmental, intelligent, instructional, and for me very inspirational!
    2. No suggestions. I like that your emphasis is on fashion and styling. That being said, you introduced me to the benefits of collagen and products like Hair Biology, both are now part of my life. I like that I learn things here that I would not discover on my own, including clothing hacks.
    3. I really don’t have a favorite. Sometimes a topic which I think won’t be of interest to me turns out to be informative and very helpful.
    4. Presently, in a time of high inflation, “Splurge or Save” motivates me to create current and classic looks at online retailers like Amazon, TJMaxx and Marshalls, all of which carry many labels featured at more high-end stores.
    5. Jennifer, you are so much more than an “influencer”. You are an “inspirer”, the highest rank in blogdom! xo

    1. Thank you so much, Lynn. I’m delighted to hear I inspire!

      1. Jennifer, you are my research assistant! I’m retired but am very active with 7 grandchildren… I go to T ball, swim meets, gymnastic meets, soccer games, plays and musical concerts that span outdoor temperatures from freezing to 100 degree weather. I don’t have time to discover all the trends and styles for myself, so your dressing room diaries, would you wear it, and tips on sales save me time and money. I confess I sometimes rely totally on what you’ve modeled even though I’m taller and older than you. Your posts give me reference and comparisons by offering a realistic photo instead of a professional model’s image. I’ve been exposed to stores I never considered before like walmart online and amazon (who knew?) I travel internationally twice a year and although I’ve literally been around the world, you travel wardrobe tips that include current and trending styles are so appreciated. Finally, since I live in the same area and shop the same stores–when you find something great and post it, I can be out the door in a flash to snatch it up!

  4. I enjoy your column and find it inspiring every day. I would typically reach for the same old comfy pieces, your suggestions and professional advice prompt consideration to branch out and ‘think’ about putting an outfit together.

    DRD are really helpful to see how different pieces work/do not work together, on a person of a certain age. Especially for those who don’t have time or access to some shops IRL. Very helpful to see we can still wear many current styles (I’ll be 60 next year—how did that happen?)

    Color is a topic it would be nice to see a bit more of; do’s and definitely do-nots, why, etc. Love the brief personable touches from your life and family as well as the occasional non-clothing features.
    Thanks for everything you do, and thanks for reading our comments!

    1. I don’t always get to answer each one but I always read your comments! I learn so much from my readers. 🙂

  5. Well, Jennifer here goes.
    1. If I was describing your blog to someone I would say there is this this adorable lady who puts style, life ideas of how to live your best life and all kinds of information from books, makeup tricks, sales and how to be fabulous in our own bodies of (50 and above – younger gals could also benefit also).
    2. What is not covered? Can not think of any specific topic, maybe life’s priorities- What is first in your life and moving down second, third and so on.
    3. I love DRD. Look forward to it every week. Great inspiration for new styles.
    4. What is most helpful to me is the “how to” hints on makeup, cleaning, accessorizing.
    5. Off hand I can not think of anything else.
    Thanks for all your research and ideas along with all the modeling. 😌

    1. Jennifer, I have described your blog to my daughter as a lifestyle and fashion blog for over 50’s but it is so much more than that. I look forward to reading it every day. I value the posts regarding makeup, skin care producsts and living a healthy, stylish life. I can’t think of any content that you are missing. I love seeing your outfits and the DRD are my favorite. You and I are not the same build, I am petite and carry a few more pounds than you, but I am inspired to try styles and colors I may not have in the past. I actually enjoy putting an outfit togther and put more effort into looking my best. I previously shopped a lot at Talbots from their petite range, but since reading your blog I have branched out to shopping at Chicos, JJIll and Nordstrom.

      1. I’m so glad you’re branching out. It’s so easy for us to get stuck in a rut.

  6. Cheryll Sampson says:

    I love DRD as I live in a small town with one clothing store.You speak to the more mature women of which I most definitely am. I like that you want to look modern but are not trying to make us smell look 20 again. Keep up the good work.

    1. Youthful and modern, never 20! :). Thanks Cheryll

  7. I really enjoy your blog and your willingness to share the ups and downs of life with a positive outlook.
    Based on comments below, and when the pandemic time is right, maybe occasionally shopping with a friend of another body shape might be cool. You could show what to look for in terms of shaping and length etc. Even little details can make a difference based on our various physiques.
    Thanks for your great work!

  8. I would describe your blog as a stylish fashion and lifestyle blog for the more mature, but classic, woman.

    I would love to see more picks for basics that you believe will last over several seasons. I am trying to make fewer, more sustainable purchases. Avoiding throwaway fashion, so that may mean spending more initially but ultimately paying less per wear. So if you have any suggestions for sustainable clothing companies, I am all in!

    I like the DRD, because they show what the pieces look like in real life. I don’t have the same body as you but I find those posts very helpful, because it gives me a sense if I could pull off a certain look. I also enjoy your collaborations with other bloggers. And I enjoy your Monday musings….just because. Thanks for all of your hard work! It can’t be easy doing this every week, and I do appreciate it. You bring a bit of normalcy and fun to these times.

    1. Thanks Melissa. I’m wanting more sustainable choices too so I’ll be talking about that more

  9. suzanstew says:

    I tell my friends that this is the best old lady fashion blog around. I like almost all of your content. I am a Talbots/Chicos shopper, but your column has extended my fashion sense to many other stores like Banana Republic and definitely Nordstrom. I like the dressing room diaries, although sometimes I think they get a little monotonous. I also do things like use your sunscreen regime, although I’d have to say my least favorites are some of your cosmetics/creams entries. I would concur with lower-cost clothing, but I like to consider the high cost stuff, too. I could not look more unlike you, but it is sometimes a little scary how frequently I see something you feature and then I go out and purchase it myself. I am a meat eater, so I would not be too keen on recipes.

    1. Awesome! I love being an old lady fashion blogger 🙂 I’m glad you’ve been inspired to branch out. It’s easy to get stuck in a rut.

  10. Reading your blog is like getting tips from a stylish friend.

    You bring us timely, up-to-date styles and info that are still relevant to those of us in the over-60 category. The only thing I’d like to see more of is colors in my autumn palette. Your last post had a nice group from Talbot’s, but I rarely see colors I can wear on the blog.

    Favorite topic might be when you show a current trend and how we can add just a bit, without looking like we’re trying to be 20.

    Dressing Room Diaries are helpful to see the clothes on you. I am built like you, just two inches taller, so seeing them on you is great.

    Thanks so much for all the hard work you put into bringing us such good information.

  11. Oh my, how do I describe my relationship to this blog! This whole aging process is a new adventure for all of us. I don’t want to be consumed with all the negative aspects of this journey but also, I want to face this time with my eyes wide open. When I found your blog, it’s been like a new, wonderful friend who shares so many of my very personal concerns. I have learned so much! It’s also the community of friends that I feel has helped me keep a sense of humor rather than tears of frustration and sadness.
    I don’t get out to all the stores to do try on sessions, so your blogs that feature what’s new are so helpful. I also love to hear what you’re trying that’s new for skin care or hair products that are working for you too.
    I just started taking a vitamin for eye care. My optometrist said that I have early stages of muscular degeneration in one eye and “wrinkling” in the other eye.
    Omg, is there no end to this whole wrinkling process!? 😂
    I love starting my day with your blog and it leaves me with a bit more energy to make the most of each new day! Thank you!

    1. I’m so sorry to hear about your eyes, Jan. Is the “wrinkling” the outer layer beginning to sag and fold? I have that now too!

      1. Apparently, the wrinkling is in the internal eye tissue. The vitamin supplement that she recommended is PreserVision Areds 2.

      2. Thank you so much! I shall order some.

    2. I am your same height and wear a size 10 – 12 and what is frustrating about that height, especially when ordering, is whether to order a regular or petite size, which can result in returns. Learning more about proportions would be greatly appreciated. I would like to see more DRD at Banana Republic, and other retailers. I have to be very selective when ordering from Talbots or Chico’s clothing…not much works for me.
      You do a good job
      with all your blogs, my least favorite is “would you wear it.” I find “Splurge or Save” is interesting, and helpful. Apparently, I missed the post on the eye vitamin. I have the beginning stages of Macular. You are great at sharing your knowledge with us. I hope all these words of encouragement is helpful.

  12. I follower several fashion bloggers and you are one of my favorites! I like to see what is on trend and where to find it, as I do most of my shopping online. Dressing Room Diaries is my favorite feature and very helpful. Splurge or Save is also fun!

  13. A well styled life would be living within you means also purchasing what you can afford and not going into debt to finance a lifestyle.

    I would like to see more affordable clothing some choice are way out of my price range. I purchase the majority of my clothing from Talbots. I usually wait for a discount. Talbot has quality and modern style.

    I do the dressing room pictures and that is my favorite topic. I do like when you describe the fit and size range.

    I would like to see more reasonable prices cosmetics even though I do buy quality skin care and make up.

    The splurge and save are good too.

    My take is that I do not want to dress like an old lady. Classic but modern.

    I am finding it hard to find dresses I like. I like sheath dresses that skim my body. The last two I purchase were from WHBM. I go for simple design on my 5’2″ 124 pound curvy body.

    I really do like your posts a lot.

    1. Dresses are going through a more is more phase these days, aren’t they?! Thanks for reminding me about WHBM.

  14. I look forward to the dressing room diaries! I like seeing you in the clothing and getting your viewpoint of the garments. Keep those coming.

    1. Will do, thanks Vicki

  15. Deborah B says:

    Fashion fun, styling and lessons for the mature woman. I enjoy your DRD – it lets me see clothes from my favorite stores on a real person, not a 5’10” size 00 fashion model! I appreciate your sharing of years of knowledge.

    1. Oh to be 5’10”! 🙂

  16. Good morning Jennifer! I would describe your blog as relevant to my current lifestyle and age. I find so many tips and clothing choices from your blog and the responses other ladies give. My two favorite types of posts are splurge vs save and especially would you wear it. I just love reading how other ladies would style clothing it’s fun.

    1. Thanks, Leslie. I was wondering if it’s time to retire would you wear it.

      1. “Would You Wear It” is my least favorite section … just for your information.

  17. I would describe your blog as the intelligent women’s fashion blog. You always cover interesting and educational topics and you don’t overwhelm us with 10 photos of the same outfit or write in a style that treats us like we have no attention span.
    I enjoy DRD and any articles that teach us something about style or colour. Your background as a style consultant is obvious in what you write about.
    And reading your articles and the reader comments feels like having a conversation with a good friend.

    1. That’s good to know, thanks. I often wonder if I say too much :). I always look forward to reading your comments, Yvonne.

  18. I enjoy your expertise on how to dress women so they look their best. Like the 1/3 2/3 rule. It might be a suggestion to you, but I use it as a rule. And crops make legs appear shorter. More please! As a professional, I’m sure you’ve picked up so many things that the average person doesn’t know or doesn’t know how to implement. When you’re in side by side pictures, showing different ways of wearing similar outfits, it’s so obvious what a styling “rule” means. More please.

    1. I’ll keep the proportion posts coming! They’re some of my favorites

  19. My favorite posts you do are when you show pictures of an outfit that doesn’t work and then tell us in detail WHY it doesn’t work. I find the mechanics of an outfit fascinating.

    1. Good to know! I’ll share more of those.

  20. Kathy Gray says:

    There are a few occasions where I need to wear something dressy. I am finding it more and more difficult to find appropriate clothing that is dressy enough. I shop at my local Nordstrom store, but find most of their dressy clothing is too young looking. Macy’s the same way.