How Would You Describe A Well Styled Life
Happy Thursday, ladies. I know what A Well Styled Life means to me. Today, I want to know what it means to you. I often say my readers are the best part of this blog, and today I need your insight and advice.
So just a few questions I’d love your take on-
- How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it?
- What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content?
- What is your favorite topic that I do cover?
- What type of post is the most helpful for you?
- Anything else you’d like to share?
Thanks in advance. I’m going to use this input to ensure I stay on track here and continue to provide value to you.
xo
I love how this blog goes beyond fashion and focuses on confidence, lifestyle, and personal style. Your relatable advice, styling tips, and thoughtful content always feel inspiring, practical, and genuinely helpful to readers.
I love your blog because it feels like getting advice from a stylish friend. The content is practical and real. Also, I’ve been trying to add more sparkle to my outfits lately like a rhinestone belt for a simple jeans look and your styling tips always inspire me to try new things.
Thank you Daisy!
I did not read any previous comments, because I wanted to think about the answers I would give to your questions. I like everything you address in the blog – I like the Monday musings, the beauty and health tips, and the things you share about your personal life, that help me relate to your fashion style and lifestyle. My favorite is the clothing – what’s trending, where to find quality clothing that is current and doesn’t make me look like I’m trying to be 30, or 40, even. I especially appreciate the Dressing Room Diaries. Even though my body shape is very different, I have similar coloring and style preferences. Your commentary on clothing, about how it fits your body and your lifestyle, is very valuable. Those are always the things I tend to forget when I am seduced by the color of a garment, the sale price, or the fact that it’s something on my “need to buy” list. I like that you sometimes experiment, and sometimes decide that things didn’t work. I look forward to your musings about wearing your “right” colors. I also love that you often remind us to “wear what makes you feel confident.”
Thank you, Ruth
I think the zebra sweater is great. It is an example of a fun and classy clothing.
To me, a well-styled life is many things. I am retired and I feel good when my home is clean and neat, I love to decorate and of course, I love clothes. I enjoy matching my jewelry to my outfits. I am 78 but still like to feel like I am in style. Your style is nice for you but for me, it is a little too casual. I do always find something I like though and I pin it. Thank you for all of your hard work so that we can improve our wardrobe! I would like you to give color tips for different skin types and styles for different body shapes.
Comprehensive and inclusive, it’s the ideal lifestyle blog to discover ways to look and feel confident. Its suggestions suit because of its breezy wit and practical content. I find myself returning to your ever-updated portfolio that exemplifies a modern-classic approach. Jennifer, best of all, your personal touch makes me feel we’re longtime friends.
Thank you, Barb!
Thanks Barb! I may steal this for my tag line 🙂
Hi Jennifer,
I tell friends that A Well Styled Life is a blog for us (women our age) covering fashion, beauty and health.
I can’t think of anything that is not already covered. I love your Dressing Room Diaries, especially when you tell us about the size you are wearing and about the fit. I have successfully purchased several items based on your descriptions. I find it frustrating when bloggers style an outfit, but don’t mention what the items are or which shops they’re from. I enjoy the style hacks as well and also appreciate your information on upcoming trends.
You do a wonderful job with your blog. You obviously put a lot of thought and research into your chosen topics.
THANK YOU!
I’m really glad to know what helps. Thank you Sandra.
I start every day with your blog! Favorite is the dressing room diaries. I never thought that JJill was right for me – I look better in structured clothing — but you inspired me and I found several things that I am enjoying!
Some topics you might want to discuss: necklines! To me they are super crucial to getting a good fit that is flattering. High crew necks on sheath dresses, wide bateau necks, and the current necklines that are everywhere right now, with a narrow band and v- opening at the top of the placket, are just not flattering. Sometimes I add a small shoulder pad to lift the garment up a fraction, off my skin and it changes the look for the better.
Some of the bateau dresses from Talbots are low at the back neck area where some of us have a slight hump so I avoid those or wear a scarf.
Another topic is, I like short shaped jackets with skirts or pants but they are hard to find now. I wish I could find some in a textured fabric like boucle or a weave, rather than smooth ponte that shows static dust. Even with static spray and every trick in the book, sometimes I look at my sleeve and it will look like salt sprinkled on it at the wrist edge.
My husband would say, “It’s not easy being you, is it? “ to tease me when I am doing something ridiculous with various sprays, pins, tape, whatever!
Last but not least, bunions… I just got the most amazing shoes, Dansko Rowan. The front part of the shoe is roomy and the straps fit snugly while the whole front half of my foot is enclosed but is not touching the shoe! It is amazing. They are cute, too.
Now I feel like we have had a little chat! Thanks for your blog, it helps me get dressed every day. Why it is a struggle at 65, I don’t know. But it is.
I guess it really isn’t easy being me!
Thank you Nancy. I really enjoyed your comment. We’re all in this together with out aging issues and I love how we help each other out. I’ll check out those Danskos. They sound great!
I enjoy your posts very much. I especially like the ones where you reveal your feelings about a subject or situation. I may not agree but respect your opinion.
I would like to read a bit more about health issues such as osteoporosis. I thought I remembered you taking a supplement. Did it work? Have other women had success with diet and/or exercise as a way to slow down bone loss?
Thanks for listening.
I love reading this blog, save or splurge is one of my favorites and so is DRD. I enjoy reading ideas for looking your best 50s and beyond. I am an avid sewer and make many of my clothes, jeans are my favorite thing to make. Id love to see more ideas of styling in terms of being able to sew things or alter to address style and color. Thanks for
Also,just wanted to say a huge thank you for doing what you do. I love your blog and tell everyone l know to follow you !!
Happy weekend xo
You’re so kind, thank you!
Hi Jennifer,
Sorry it’s late but l wanted to reply to this post.
1) A terrific blog for women sharing the best of what’s on offer today in regards to style, healthy living,positive thinking,Sorry it is late !!!
2)l love creative and artisan clothing and jewelry,and supporting artists so maybe introducing us to finds from Etsy and other sites that foster the unexpected and the unique. Also l would love a post on tartan, the really authentic fabric, and why the color choices and the history and how would you wear it today. I always like learning about the source of fashion pieces and why they are timeless. Fair isle knitting or cable sweaters…
3) l love your tricks for styling…if only l could remember them!! Maybe you could have a video library on the site so we could refer back to them. Also your splurge and save is great. How to trick the eye to help with problem areas is always good.
4)You have such an amazing gift of writing and communicate so well your audience feels honored to be included, so l would say write the post you want to write not what you think we want to hear necessarily. I am thinking about Beth’s piece on grieving on “Style At A Certain Age” as it is something we all are going to go through and the way she talked about her marriage and coming to terms with loss and finding a way through was marvelous. I love hearing the truth from my favorite bloggers -of course you are number 1- because it is a relationship l am attached too with how many days a week tuning in !! I have been following your posts for years now and l always enjoy them. Especially for older women …l am 58 dealing with adult children living a long way away, families apart, what do we do to keep motivated and feeling engaged…..so my advice is be you, what interests do you want to explore. What is imperative to you we hear.
5) Maybe conversations with other women you admire and want to interview. One of the things l love about your blog is you don’t show clothes that are too expensive. I understand there are always statement pieces worth buying but l do get fed up of stylists who constantly show Nordstrom prices all over the $400 mark dresses in the $600 mark and put boards together that cost a fortune. I cannot and will not live that way. I feel they are just collecting my money to add to their Nordy points !
Thanks for listening.
Thanks so much for your ideas, Francesca! I always look forward to your comments and insights. Etsy is such a great source for fun things.
I would call your blog the thinking woman’s guide to real life. You cover a lot of topics with brevity and clear analysis. You invite civil discussion and you elicit tons of reader input which is also informative and grounding. It feels like a community. You are an educator who is influential. I used to get very overwhelmed with shopping choices, but have learned to have an eye for pieces that offer flexibility, longevity. Your practical shoes give you credibility,and your elevation of casual basics with accessories is what I wish to emulate.
Input about your family life,health,travel packing, hair journeys, eyewear keep me hooked. I don’t follow “ would you wear it” or weekly sales, but all the rest is a helpful mix. Appreciation for all you do.
PS: Sorry but forgot to include this suggestion in my previous response. If possible Jennifer, would enjoy that in your comments section (platform allowing), a link to upload photos of us modeling the items we purchased from your dressing room diaries and or / finds along with comments. On Facebook we can add these photos but not directly on your blog (for those who are not familiar nor subscribe to your Facebook group). Just an FYI,
Love your blog agree with all the comments. Your teaching me so much about fashion. Love your approach and sincerity. My only feedback which is totally out of your control is that many products/items that you recommend are not available for purchase in Canada. Enjoy reading the comments great idea to incorporate in your blog.
I know that and I wish I could fix it. Thanks for reading.
Hi Jennifer.
Sorry for the length but is necessary.
Thank you for asking us for input. Your request had me thinking deep about how your blog and advice assisted me with defining my personal style, making informed decisions and influencing how clothing fits and conforms to our individual figures and personal style.
Additionally, when I followed some of your recommendations with respect to hair/body/facial care, sunscreen and beauty products, I experienced a revolution and inspiration that led me onto a path to be my best self. I cannot thank you enough for being my inspiration and mentor.
In the past 4 years, I’ve experienced a drastic change in self-care, thanks to your advice. My social group now compliments on my color choices, jewelry, clothing (expert fit included), makeup, hair color and style as well as confidence exuded. This was all due to locating your blog and following the advice you provide. No exaggeration here, just results!
1. I describe your advice to my friends as a blogger friend who advice assist me with making educated decisions based upon what and what not to wear as we age gracefully. I additionally explain how you, as a stylist, assist us with making informed decision which help each one of us to be and present the advice best image possible. I describe your health and beauty advice as invaluable. Hopefully, many of my friends made the decision to follow you.
2. What I feel is covered less and would like to see more of, is an informed sharing of healthy living decisions to emulate your preferences (love how you lost the weight but don’t understand how those last 10 lost came about – i.e., food choices and exercise routine) to suit our age group. While I believe makeup, skin and hair products, clothing and supplements are invaluable, healthy choices matter more than anything else, yes? You appear to be at peak health and would love to learn how.
3. Of course, my favorite topic is the dressing room diaries (I was an unabashed fashionista in my heyday) where you show us all how clothing from various merchandisers fit and presents. I do find sometimes the size you are mentioning and fits you, then stating TTS, is not always accurate. A suggestion is to post your measurements rather than size for a more accurate gage of the sizing. I’ve found when looking at the merchant’s sizing charts, and even verifying the garment measurements via telephone call, often are far off reality. So much limited in store inventory is creating even more of a frustrating experience.
4. All of your posts are helpful. Truly found you are honestly relating your personal experiences with products tried along with the results.
5. Jennifer, your influence and advice has converted me from an individual who basically gave up on feeling and looking good while aging into someone who actually cares about myself again and strives to be the best I can be. So many compliment me on the transformation and cannot believe I’ve lost 60 lbs, wear nice clothing and care about my appearance and health. I wouldn’t have changed but for finding your blog. The honest truth. Thank you immensely. Please keep up the excellent blog and work. You are so much appreciated. XoX
Great insights here!! Best: DRD, Splurge or Save, Sales, Hair, Nails. I do find the Mannequin Restyling somewhat irrelevant, since I almost NEVER am attracted to what the store thinks is stylish. So it’s back to your staples as stated above. Great work Jennifer!! You inspire me!!!
I am fairly new to your blog and love it. When I was younger, I always had a friend who served as my fashion consultant. She would always advise me on what styles and colors looked good on me. My daughter, before she moved away also helped with fashion advise. At one time she promised to never let me go out of the house looking like a fool. Fashion does not come naturally to me. Let me write policies and procedures or make a spreadsheet but choose a stylish outfit, forget it. I go blank in a clothing store. I now live in a very rural community and no longer have fashion consultant friends so you have replaced that role in my life.
I really enjoy DRD, “would you wear it” (because I like to hear what others think compared to my thoughts), and Splurge or Save. Tips you provide are always helpful as I learn to look my best. Your style sense matches what I like in fashion and my wardrobe.
Please keep doing what you are doing. Your blog is a pleasure to read each day.
I’m delighted to fill that toll for you, Becky. Thank you
i love your blog and all your fashion posts. I would like to know a bit more about retirement, any hints, as I understand you live in a retirement complex.
I would describe your blog as reasonable. Reasonable clothes at affordable (for me) prices. My favorite feature is would you wear it and i am recently loving save or splurge. The days of spending hours in dressing rooms are over so i do appreciate drd. Would you wear it is a hoot and so bewildering. It is what gets me up on saturday mornings.
This influencer is someone that I could be friends with:) Jennifer is confident and assured enough to give her honest”take on things” and I get the sense after following her for a couple of years that there is no “put on” with her. I’m always amazed at the variety of topics ( Monday musings) she covers that interest me at my stage of life:). I’ve developed more confidence in my shopping and my fashion choices and I give all the credit to Jennifer! The dressing room diaries are fun and informative, and I especially have enjoyed all the posts on Color/ and contrast, ( I even followed up and had a color draping with terry Wildfong in CA- I’d been totally out to lunch for 40 years on that one!!). and packing and travelling with carry on!! The only “downside” would be that I have definitely spent more money in the last couple of years on what’s in my closet and vanity!! On the other hand, I’m more confident in knowing why I never wear a particular thing or why I reach for something over and over. I would say just keep doing what you’re doing Jennifer, as long as you enjoy it!! During covid, I did enjoy the instagram hour you did with the 3 other influencers on Fridays but it must have added quite a bit to your schedule.. perhaps once in a while you could do that again! Thank you. Jill from Canada!
Agree with you Jill. Jennifer and her blog turned my life of not caring around! I was a frump until I discovered her blog. Such a beautiful inspiration personally and with her unabashed advice!
Thanks for asking
` How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it?
A style (not a fashion) blog for those at or near retirement. Leans classic and middle of the road, both in point of view and price points
` What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content?
I think you cover what you know well. Honestly I’m here because you have style/dressing expertise. If I want nutrition, skin care or makeup advice I’ll find a blog/ YouTube channel with expertise in that topic
` What is your favorite topic that I do cover?
Style tips, how to wear trends, how to tell if something fits
`What type of post is the most helpful for you?
I love the new splurge or save, loved the how to tell if your clothes don’t fit. I like the would you wear it posts. Not really into the dressing room diaries
Anything else you’d like to share
Dressing for the mature women but never dowdy. I love your style?
A friendly space in the comments. I have rarely seen someone attack another’s comments.
I love topics on the latest trends for the season (what’s In & what’s Out) and how to wear then for those of us well over sixty.
I appreciate the fact that you are not constantly doing try on “hauls” to try to influence us to buy and buy.
Your posts on beauty are always appreciated. It keeps us in the know on what is out there and Jennifer approved.
I started following you because you lived on Vancouver Island, as I do, and continue to for your content. You’re very relatable, down to earth, kind, informed, and have a great sense of humour.
I recently found your blog when looking for style tips for a petite woman over 50. I would describe the blog as informative in regards to clothing options for a mature woman. I really like the dressing room diaries and the splurge vs cost effective choices. I love a classic updated look on a Vintage style, such as Grace Kelly style a bit modernized. Peddle pusher/Clam digger, interesting sweaters and of course classic white buttoned down shirt. Also, breathable fabrics are important at this stage of life for many of us. Thank you for all your professional insights which keep me out of the “Adult Garanimal” look!🙏😁
I am thrilled to do all I can to keep us out of the adult garanimal look 🙂
Oh my Wendy, “adult garanimal” is the perfect phrase! I remember how depressed I was when I went to the store and it seemed like the only choices were 1) shredded clothes designed to show off young bodies 2) appliques of dragonflies and/or cats.
(dragonfly on shirt pocket, matching dragonfly on pants pocket, so you know they make an outfit)
I’ve had those same experiences in stores too, Martha. I find it discouraging.
Informative blog for fashion, tips and tricks for over 50 year old women. I like the Splurge or Save, Dressing Room Diaries.
I like it when you wear an outfit with jewelry, shoes, purse that go together that looks good . I need ideas on how to put together an outfit with certain basic pieces and then adding the accessories.
Also how to mix and match different pieces.
Thanks for all you do. You help make me feel young by your fashion ideas , hair and makeup. Look forward to the blog every day.
Mostly, I enjoy the blog but I will echo others in saying I don’t care for the mannequin posts much.
I am the same height and weight as you but I wear a larger size, much to my frustration.
Soft Surroundings might be another store to feature.
I especially enjoy the try on sessions and explanations of why an item works or doesn’t. I tend to bypass the blogs that ask Would you Wear it. It’s much more useful to see you in items with your comments on the fit since I seem to do nearly all of my shopping online these days.
I would describe your blog as being a place where mature women can get fashion inspiration. I really enjoy the posts where you try on clothes-it really helps to see how the clothing looks when it’s on someone, as opposed to just a picture. Your blog is one of my favorites, and I read a lot of them! Thanks for all your hard work- I’m sure you’re exhausted after those try-ons!😊
1. A Well Styles Life is a friendly conversation with a style-savy friend who offers great advice, especially for women who are 50+. A perfect read over your morning coffee/tea.
2. I’d like to see…
a)Trends/advice on eye glasses/sunglasses, flattering styles, current trends and what’s definitely out of style.
b) How to be a stylish, yet responsible consumer.
c) Emphasis in environmentally aware clothing manufacturers.
d) Benefits if choosing natural fibres over polyester, for comfort and the environment.
e) Avoiding over consumption.
f) Emphasis in cost per wearing over several years.
g) Care of clothing, i.e., hand washing, refastening loose buttons, polishing shoes/boots, using a cobbler to extend the life of shoes/boots, wise use of a seamstress, proper hangers to preserve the life of a garment.
3, Favourite topics
a). Petites – where to shop, lengths of pants/skirts, sleeves, styles to avoid
b) Proportion.
c) How to enhance/update our current wardrobes.
4. Most helpful posts
a) Where to shop for Petites
b) Lessons on capri pants!
c) advice to wear what makes you feel confident.
5. Anything else? Thank you for the excellent work you do, for the gentle way you have of guiding so many of us in our quest to stay current as we age. Thanks for visiting Canada and sharing your experience.
Describing this blog to a friend: a fashion/lifestyle blog for the mature woman of any age who wants sensible advice and interesting ideas on style, health, and beauty products. I am not a fan of weight loss/healthy eating topics as I have plenty of that from other sources. I do love your DRD’s because so few of us look like the very tall slender models. I like the save or splurge posts and those that deal with body proportion and silhouette are very helpful. Someone mentioned updating former outfits to be a little more on trend. I would love that. Also, I have had some success dyeing fabrics (clothing items) and even shoes. That might be fun to explore. I am beginning to understand the hard work of your blog, so thank you for your efforts.
Jennifer, how thoughtful of you to ask your readers for their input. I’m new to your website but find I want to look at it every day for the info you post. I am a bit older than you, but we are almost exactly the same height, weight, and build, so it is very helpful and keeps me objective to see you trying on clothes. I even share your thinning hair problem. My responses to your questions follow.
1. How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it? I’d say, “You just have to go to visit A Well Styled Life! It’s a website for women our age, by Jennifer, a woman our age, who gives good, down-to-earth advice on clothing, make-up, accessories, etc. She’s both informative and tongue-in-cheek fun. You can actually see her try on the latest styles which can turn out to be good, bad and even ugly. Check it out!”
2. What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content? I’d enjoy an occasional dose of info about something healthy and good to eat. Maybe a recipe? Or, a supplement (especially for thin hair). And maybe even an exercise to try. . .
3. What is your favorite topic that I do cover? I really like that you work with balancing your look. I’m and Interior Decorator and find that balancing the look of a room is probably the most important step in creating beauty. I find that true when decorating a body too. I’ve also really enjoyed your recent ‘High/Low’ shopping comparisons. I don’t mind spending extra on something that I’m going to wear many, many times, but try to save on a piece of clothing that is especially trendy and may only be useful for a season.
4. What type of post is the most helpful for you? Love seeing you in things you may not normally wear. It is so easy to fall for something that doesn’t do you any favors, and seeing you try on outfits you know aren’t ‘you’, brings the point home.
5. Anything else you’d like to share? Thank you for your blog. It takes a true commitment to keep something like this interesting and fun for as long as you have. Your dedication is appreciated.
Thanks so much, CD, and welcome!
Agree with you CD!
Hmm… I read a handful of blogs, but I open yours first every day. Most of my friends are too busy for fun (or fashion) so I don’t share my happy secrets. Truth be told, many of them think fashion talk is frivolous and prefer to spend their energies on “causes.” We all come out of a serious academic background where the loftier the thought, the better. Now that I am retired, I have drifted away from world improvement and find myself the happier for it. I did my bit. Let the kids take over.
Now that I have told you more than you wanted to know, I will say that I enjoy your travel posts, the dressing room, WYWI, and I like that you provide links. I’m not so into health, skin, makeup, hair posts. That stuff I think I have covered (but it’s great for others.) So what you need to do is travel more so I can read more travel posts!
Fashion is far from frivolous in my book. It’s a tool women can use to improve their confidence and, yes, have fun. I will do my very best to travel more, Kay. I can’t think of a loftier goal as I head onto the back side of my 60s.
Great posts. Enjoy all of them, especially the styles and colors for the next season. Also including petite shops.
Echo Carolyn’s comment. Not just buy, buy, buy. Shopping has become less fun. Most brick and mortars don’t have proper inventory; ergo online shopping. Most of us are on retired incomes and don’t want to KEEP adding more STUFF. Cue the returns…. Ugh ! Thoughtful purchases!
Love the ‘why this doesn’t work and why this does “.
That being said… I love that you show items that the 55-60+ set would wear but without looking frumpy. Sooooo past the age of 3.5” heels, painful shoes, midriff and too much skin baring articles of clothing🙄. Etc…
There’s nothing better than your dressing room diaries! I love all your other thoughts regarding style, life, transitions, travel to Canada(!) or elsewhere. But when I try on clothes and wish I had some friendly advice from a friend standing next to me, I count you as that friend! Rarely do I try on in dressing rooms these days, but even at home with my own mirror, I am often hopelessly indecisive about my choices. Your observations about your own try-ons are very helpful!
I love the dressing room diaries, splurge or save features best. I have been copying designer looks with less expensive look alike s for years. It’s a fun challenge!
1 – this blog offers an interesting and helpful variety of tips on beauty, health and fashion geared to benefiting women of maturing years. It’s focus is mainly on fashion and the presenter does a great job of bringing current trends as well as classic style examples in stores to her readers. She models them herself to show how they look & fit, giving info on sizing and price points. Readers are invited to respectfully comment on their fashion likes and dislikes, and to offer ideas on how to style items that are presented.
She also adds human interest by sharing a bit about her travels and family, which is relatable and makes her seem almost like a friend.
2- I can’t think of anything that is not covered.
3- I like the dressing room blogs as well as shots of you wearing your clothes in various locations. I like seeing the clothing in real life. Also really have enjoyed the posts on color analysis. Would like more open discussion on that
4- Seeing the new fashions is helpful to me. Most are not items I would wear in my climate , but it’s nice to think about wearing them. And because I am fairly isolated due to health and location, seeing your photos taken in various places, like Tahoe and Victoria, is uplifting to me.
I have been to most places you annually visit, love them, and very much enjoy seeing your photos. It’s a “ Calgone, take me away “ pleasure ( I’ve dated myself !)
5- I’ve especially enjoyed the color analysis posts because it is of particular interest to me. I would like to see more open discussion of that.
I have not found much benefit from the mannequin displays and tend to pass on those.
But I look forward to more dressing room and location modeling. And I love reading comments by readers. Even critical ones. It’s very interesting to me to read how others see and feel about fashion and why they have their preferences. Also I’m glad this is a blog rather than one of those annoying vlogs where the presenter models clothes and can’t stop wiggling , fast posing, moving up and back. I literally get dizzy watching those and no longer bother with them except for one in which the young woman is very calm, quiet, and slow paced.
Still photos are so much more enjoyable.
You do a great job Jennifer. I look forward to your posts. They do brighten my days with ideas of things beyond my realm.
I have told a friend about your blog and we always discuss the outfits and the pros and cons of them for ourselves.
I live in a small tourist city in BC and cannot purchase most of the clothes you show but I am going to Phoenix this winter and will be paying close attention to your suggestions before I go down and will be shopping.
I like your posts on travel, books, health and tidbits about your family and life.
One negative on my part, not yours, is that when I see women my age or younger wearing certain outfits, I think , oh, Jennifer wouldn’t like that look. I know it’s challenging for us over 60 to not be confused about fashion, but your suggestions help a lot.
I don’t usually read Would you wear it? and I’m not an accessory person but everything else is great!!
I know how hard it is to write a blog as my daughter has a beauty/fashion blog as well as being a healthcare worker. A lot of time and your own expense go into it so I appreciate you and what you do.
Jennifer, you are doing a wonderful “public service” for women in the 50+ demographic. They say age is just a number, but when women reach that “golden”number, the world has a tendency to tune them out. In a youth-centered American culture, Hollywood still portrays many of “us” as unattractive and stupid. Employers discriminate left and right without being caught. There’s a genuine sense of invisibility and irrelevancy. Not so with your blog.
I’d describe your blog as refreshing and geared to the over-50 woman who wants to feel good in her own skin – in her wardrobe – and in life, in general. There are a few things that are covered, but perhaps not enough: Eileen Fisher and Nordstrom have lovely clothes, but for people on fixed incomes and living in inflationary times, it’s wishable, but not doable. I’d like to see a little more on upcycling or “resurrection” of some of the clothing many of us have held on to from past years. One great idea you had in a past blog was cutting down the heels on shoes. On another detailed note, I would like to see more outfits designed for those of us with “meno-pots” and perhaps an occasional low-cal recipe to help reduce it. Just a thought.
My favorite topic on your blog is when you coordinate outfits and then ask for our opinions. It never lacks for ideas.
Kudos, again, Jennifer for issuing a new daily blog; a lot of work surely, but you’re doing a public service for all of us. Thank you.
I’ve described your blog (to many friends) as a place I go for sound, thoughtful, and useful fashion advice for my age group. And where I can learn about current trends and how to incorporate them into my lifestyle. You have a kind way about you that not only comes through in your narrating, but also in your comments to others. I also like that you encourage us to participate. I learn so much from the other readers. I look forward to reading your blog every day!
As a very senior woman, shopping for undergarments that provide comfort & support is difficult. That suggestion is an important one as undergarments make a critical difference in the way something fits & looks. I do hope you’ll consider that for a future blog.
They are sooo important. Great suggestion
Jennifer, I won’t repeat the many positive remarks already made except to say that I read and enjoy your blog every day. One fashion issue I have is since I already own too many clothes, I would like to see you address buying one new “star” item and then using that new item with a variety of clothing items that you already have in your closet. I am interested in doing this for myself.
Great idea, Bea
I love your blog, too-Jennifer😌I think it is smart to check with us from time to time on what we think. What makes your blog unique in that you really cover fashion & life style issues as well. This is what I would tell others about your blog. New products & techniques for hair, skin for us over 50 is important. Like many of us, I journal in the morning and you are part of my routine!
1. I would describe your blog as a source for fashion and beauty advice for mature women.
2. I can’t think of any content for you to add.
3. My favorite topics are dressing room try on and splurge or save.
4. Most helpful posts include taking health supplements and what not to wear.
I don’t really have much to add. I enjoy seeing the clothes on a person rather than a mannequin. I also like seeing the skincare products you talk about. As we age our skin changes and sometimes we have to find different products.
I’ve read the responses below and can’t think of a thing to add to them, I agree with them all, BTW I bought the electric shaver and just love it!! Thanks for that tip, it’s worth every penny!!
Doris M
I really like that you are transparent about your height, weight, sizes you try on and fit issues. I rarely go into stores anymore and this information helps me decide how to order online.
Other than that, it’s just fun to read your posts, amiga!
Hi, there. You asked for thoughts on what your blog means to us.
For me, reading your content is like visiting a friend with excellent fashion knowledge and advice. I like “Dressing Room Diaries” the most, although all of your content is useful and, most importantly, enjoyable. Interestingly, our two bodies are decidedly different, which is probably true for all of your readers. I am skinny with a flat chest (ha, ha), but at 71, I still love fashion, especially the Ann Taylor esthetic. In the future, I would LOVE to see more videos, especially when you join with blogger friends.
Take care and keep up the wonderful content. You inspire and entertain all of us.
Thank you, Karole
1) How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it?
a) I would describe your blog as a great resource on fashion and self-care that focuses on personalized classic styles with a twist – it isn’t staid.
2) What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content?
a) Maybe sustainable fashion choices. I also like that one time you incorporated a vintage scarf into your outfit. I would like to find out more about how to make good vintage selections.
3) What is your favorite topic that I do cover?
a) I enjoy reading all your topics, and your visits to clothing stores to try on clothes is probably my favorite, since I shop at many of the stores that you visit.
4) What type of post is the most helpful for you?
a) When you talk about why certain proportions or styles “work” it is really helpful for me.
5) Anything else you’d like to share?
a) I really enjoy your blog. I find it very relatable and full of good information. It is also fun to read!
Thank you so much, Alexis!
I like that you feature clothing and styling tips for clothes from the stores that I shop. What I would like is for you to style those clothes on other people with different body shapes and coloring. After following you I know what will look good on you but how would those colors work on a brunette or a person with a curvy figure etc. That would help others style themselves at those stores.
Hi Jennifer. What about a Q and A post? We could ask the questions then in a subsequent post you could list a few and answer them. I so appreciate all that you do for us and can’t for the life of me figure out how you keep up with it all! Blessings to you!
I love your tips on how to style and fit better for our size age and what to put together that makes you look polished Taller or thinner . I’ve started wearing belts and scarves more and more aware of what doesn’t look good on a short person and what does .I also like seeing real clothes tried on by you for fit and comfort ! A model online is so often 20 and tall and very thin .😏
Many of your choices are unaffordable for me but I can shop for the sale discount or even thrift items or occasionally splurge on your choice that look similar . I like that you include a variety of stores and prices ..and age appropriate but still fun and fresh . And it helps me stay current and not look dumpy or frumpy as I age . And I appreciate you don’t embrace silly trends for 20 year olds (like ripped jeans or bare midriffs 😂
I look forward to your posts and I share so many of same health issues with you which I relate to ( the feet , skin precautions , eye , thin hair and even the finger Dupree issue ) that we get as we age and have to adapt our life and fashion to ..☺️
We do seem to deal with more body breakdowns every year :). Thanks Susan
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I love that you go in different stores and show us what is in their shop.
I love the spurge and save post. ***
I love different options of what to wear–like a wedding.
I appreciate all the new brands of skin care, make up, etc.
I appreciate the information on how jeans should fit; how to wear leggings; length of skirts, capris, etc.
length of sleeves; and how to dress in thirds.
I feel you hit it out of the park and I will always continue to follow you!
Thanks so much Paula!
Oh my goodness, from reading over the many comments I think everything has been said. On that note though, as it is obvious your forte is that of a stylist who is genuinely knowledgeable you might consider taking one of your random photos of yourself and explain why you chose the pieces you did.
i.e.: As in the photo you included. The tank top adds _________. Also, maybe a mini course on how to organize one’s clothing and accessories, or encourage a discussion per same (considering climates vary) would be beneficial to some. Just a thought as (even at my age) I am always open to learning. -Brenda-
Great idea, Brenda
In addition to your style and fashion advice, which is really invaluable, I think you speak to many of the issues that are important to educated, well-to-do women over 55 or so. Issues of sustainability, re-use, repurposing are important to me. I have a daughter about the same age as yours and want to leave her and my son with a better world. That’s an incredible challenge – but you take on these issues when you talk about investment purchases, mining our closets, beauty products, etc. Maybe you could cover consignment shops, what vendors donate or will recycle clothes, clothes rentals, etc. I love your Monday musings and DRDs! And your style tips are second to none. The save or splurge is fun, but once a month would be fine with me.
Your blog is the first on my reading list in the morning. I describe it to friends as casual classic affordable and relatable to my lifestyle and aesthetic. I love your dressing room diaries series as well as the new save/splurge series. The ‘would you wear it” feature is a fun weekend feature too. I like that you explain WHY certain proportions and silhouettes work or do not.
Thank you for all of your hard work and effort keeping us up to date and informed on the latest trends & products.
I love your tips on how to style and fit better for our size age and what to put together that makes you look polished Taller or . I’ve started wearing belts and scarves more and more aware of what doesn’t look good on a short person and what does .I also like seeing real clothes tried on by you for fit .and comfort ! A model online is so often 20 and tall and very thin .
Many of your choices are unaffordable for me but I can shop for the sale discount or even thrift items or occasionally splurge on your choice that look similar . And it helps me stay current and not look dumpy or frumpy as I age
I really like your blog and enjoy seeing all the styles and colors you put together and show us. Lately, I m not so much interested in clothing . I m trying my best to just update what I already have and save a bit of money. However, I spend a lot on my hair and hair products and make up so I d really be interested in finding really good products. I color my hair and recently I m considering going grey (Im 74 years old, and getting tired of the monthly hair appointments. I d love to see articles about the best way to let my hair go naturally grey) I m just not sure I can handle letting my hair grow out and always have that white strip on my hair . And I love to see articles on quality comfortable shoes for my bad feet. Not necessarily designer shoes, but well made quality shoes. Thank you for your interesting articles .
I plan to cover shoes more, because we all need them
I would describe the blog as a conservative but current style/fashion/skin care blog for post-60 women.
I appreciate the constructive information regarding body-type as it relates to fashion. That you give specifics about your body-type as it relates to the clothing you feature is helpful.
Wish the accessories (e.g. purses and shoes) were more affordable for me.
I also find much of the skin-care information interesting and often useful.
Hope the above helps a little. I truly appreciate the hard work and thoughtfulness you put into your blog.
It does help and I thank you!
1. A blog for mature women who are interested in looking and living their best…accessible fashion and trends, with a dash of home, books, beauty, travel.
2. Color—hints on choosing and integrating our favorite, best colors throughout a neutral wardrobe…Simplifying our wardrobes—not quite capsule…Supportive shoe brands—not quite orthotic…Applying makeup, especially eyeliner, maybe visit a Nordstroms beauty counter for a makeover… Assembling an upgraded every day wardrobe that works for physical, non-office work
3. Because the nearest women’s clothing stores to me (such as Chico’s or Talbots) are three hours away from my home I depend on your DRD to see into these stores. Would they allow you to occasionally do a video walk through so we could see a bit of the racks of clothing, giving an overall look at the trending colors and styles ?
4-5. I’d love to see posts on creating a nurturing lifestyle…hygge, if you will…how to live with more intention, extending the caregiving we have done throughout our lives, first with children and now with spouses and friends, to ourselves. More than candles and the fireplace I don’t have….
I think I could do a video in the store. I’ll try some. Thanks for the ideas.
I like that you do dressing room diaries. Instead of encouraging mass consumption, you try, not buy.
I am not interested in strictly OOTD style blogs. I will not be wearing new clothes every day. I am more interested in restyling what I do have in multiple ways. How can I get creative — that’s what I need.
I like that there are elements of learning along the way. My body shape and height are not like yours, nor is my coloring. I can still learn from your blog.
I appreciate the budget-friendly options in the recent high-low features. We all have different priorities and budgets.
This is real life dressing for real life women.
Carry on!
I have described your blog as everything a woman over 50 would need to know. I love the dressing work diaries and the splurge/save segments. I’m always looking for ways to dress as a petite person. I look forward to all you have to say, thanks!
Hi, I just started reading your blogs and subscribed to your e-mails. I do love that you look amazing and we are close in age, so you do show it’s possible to be very stylish and still age appropriate. One of your articles I believe talked about proportion. I have two dusters which I love and don’t wear because they were way too long for my height. A quick trip to a good tailor and I have two dusters ‘new’ for my fall wardrobe, shortened a good 5 inches. You’ve encouraged me to look at my closet and do more editing. What I purchase and what I end up wearing shows a huge gap in my everyday clothes choices. I’m a big t-shirt and jeans person, loafers, flats , tennis shoes. Not a sandal person.
Maybe more makeup tips. They abound on the internet, but nice to have tips condensed, otherwise a person can get a bit overwhelmed. I do plan to recommend your blog to friends that flounder sometimes as I do… Have a great day….I’m looking forward to fall, and sweater weather,,,,well in a few more months…
That’s awesome that you got them tailored!! Bravo
I don’t think I was ever fashionable and now in my late 50s I had about given up. I don’t want to look frumpy but I find shopping to be very difficult, particularly in my hot, humid climate. What to choose? How to put an outfit together? What styles are appropriate for someone my age? Your blog has been an inspiration to me. I like the fact that you explain things and that the outfits aren’t too flashy or too hard to find. The dressing room diaries, would you wear it, and splurge or save columns are very helpful, plus the columns where you explain principles that I can use. For example the other day when you explained that in a hot climate, you can get a fall feeling from color choice even when fabric choice is light. Or the time when you showed an outfit for the plane and explained why you chose what you did. Or you suggestions for wearing leggings. My body type is different from yours so sometimes the suggestions need translating, but it would be unreasonable to expect you to be my twin, haha. I also really enjoy reading the comments–it has been very enlightening to see everyone’s opinions and suggestions. I’ve already recommended your blog to friends. Thank you for a good blog and a good community of readers. 🙂
re: what is missing, that was a hard question! Other commenters have given some great topic suggestions that I would second: how to accessorize, what looks good on different body types, why are the “splurge” items so much more expensive. Also, maybe you could have an index to your “greatest hits” or tags for recurring features like the mannequin or splurge/save features. Then people who like a particular kind of content could easily read through your previous posts.
I love this community too. Thanks Martha!
I agree with comments made by others and expressed so much better than I could have! Your blog is so relatable and helpful and your readers who comment are great too. I would like more information about dressing for body type — I am the opposite shape! My shoulders are narrower and my hips and thighs are heavy, so the silhouettes that look wonderful on you would not look the same on me. I do love the look of well-fitting shoulders and a bit of looseness (or not tight) at the hip and slender legs. Sigh! I might as well wish to be tall!
If I would have to describe your blog in two words or less, I would say you are relatable and informative. I love how you are able to add your own personal twist to a classic piece and make it your own. My favorite features are the DRD’s and the Save or Splurge posts. I also enjoy learning what you pack when going on vacation. As a carry-on only kind of girl, seeing how to put together multiple outfits that will take you anywhere, from just a few basic pieces is especially helpful. One thing that I would like to see is an open and honest conversation on how much is enough. I would say the common thread through most fashion blogs is buy, buy, buy. While it’s sometimes fun to see one individual’s haul from the N-sale for instance, my underlying thought is “how much of what is in your closet is actually needed or even being worn”? Not to mention how much it all costs! After all, how many pairs of jeans does a person really need? More and more, I am yearning to simplify my life and do more with less; but at the same time I don’t look like I’ve given up on looking current either. Perhaps that is why I appreciate your blog so much as your style is more classic and timeless, but with a modern twist. Another topic I would love to see addressed more is how to make your color palette work in off seasons. For instance, I am a summer person, or was at least until my hair turned white. It has always been a struggle to find things to wear in the Fall. I also am leaning towards the coastal Grandma style but how does a coastal Grandma do winter? Thank you for all your hard work, my morning coffee wouldn’t be the same without you!
If you were a summer, you’re still a summer but some of your best colors have shifted. Coastal grandmother style is relaxed in sift blues and neutrals. Perfect for a summer palette.
Good morning, Jennifer. I will try to answer your questions. #1 A fashion blog for older ladies #2 I am not one for giving advice. Sorry. I say do your thing. It’s your blog. And it’s good. #3 Fashion and travel #4 I read your blog every day but not sure about the helpful thing. #5 I would enjoy knowing more about the area where you live and I always enjoy your travels. Plus if you recommend books or movies, I am always interested.
1) “You need to read Jennifer’s blog, “A Well Styled Life.” I feel like I am keeping up with a friend when I read her blog. Because of Jennifer I wear jewelry and lipstick everyday even though I am just going to be at home taking care of my husband. I do it for myself. I’ve learned about taking better care of my face; that I’m not the only one with dry eyes in this world; and I’ve stretched a bit in the type of clothes I wear. Sometimes I like her style suggestions, sometimes, I don’t; but she doesn’t tell you absolutes, just to wear what is right for you and makes you feel good,
2) Because I would sew, I would love to see fabrics for each season. But, I realize I am in the vast minority on that and don’t expect to ever see that in any style blog. Forget I said anything. It was the only thing I could think of that is missing for me.
3) & 4) I like it when you share cosmetics you are trying and how they are working for you. Your hair products, too.
5). I’m not crazy about the mannequins. Usually, there is nothing I like about them. That may be because I don’t shop in department stores, but in fabric stores and pattern catalogs. But I do love the recent, “Splurge or Save(?)” outfits you have been putting together. I find those very helpful.
Your answer to number one brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for sharing that Phyllis!
I’d love to return to sewing for myself as I did when I was young and sewed all my own clothing as well as for my boys.I bet there are many of us here who used to sew. It would be very cool to see the look created from a “can’t-fail” Simplicity pattern as well as the online fabric source for those of us trying a return to sewing
I hadn’t heard of this until yesterday, but you might check out Erica, Mari. She’s a sewer with an amazing sense of kind-of-out-there style.
My sister and I both read your posts and often discuss them. We love the outfit ideas. You have a similar body composition and life style to ours, so most often the outfits are fun and useful to us. You also convinced my sister to get rid of her capris! Thank You!
I would love a little more comparison on the posts that show an expensive outfit and a more moderately priced one. I always understand the value of saving money but would like to understand when a more expensive item might be preferable. Is the shirt a better material that doesn’t wrinkle as badly? Does the coat shed rain better or is just better cut and will look better on? I know that might be hard for you to do, but I would love to read the discussion!
That’s a great idea, Leslee. Quality can often be in the eye if the beholder but I think this is a great idea! My extreme pleasure about the capris 🙂
Love dressing room diaries, and that you include what size you are wearing. You are fortunate to be able to sometimes wear regular/misses or go down to petites.
Taller gals don’t have options, but I can tell from your photos what will work for me. I appreciate all the work you put into this.
I describe AWSL as a fashion blog. You cover a bit of everything.
1. I would describe this blog as one that would appeal to women like me: retired, still active in the community, style-conscious.
2. I would love to see the outfits you showcase on another, more curvy woman.
3. Dressing room diaries are the best!
4. The most helpful part isn’t the type of post, but the fact that you link all the items.
5. Can’t think of anything else. I look forward to all episodes, except, perhaps “Would you wear it?” I’ve rarely seen anything that would entice me to try it on.
I’m a long-time everyday reader, first-time commenter.
I’d describe the blog as a fashion and lifestyle blog for our age group with a realistic and modern approach to looking our best—from smart basic clothing items to accessorizing, advice on hemlines/shoes, proportions, and silhouettes that are on trend, or not (ex. flared jeans vs skinny jeans). The blog is a fun way for me to see what’s new and fresh and modern without tramping through all the stores.
I think you’ve got almost every topic of interest covered.
Favorite topics:
I love posts about color (as an aging Cool Winter I’m still learning to adjust to graying hair and overall fading).
Posts on haircare interest me because my hair is also thinning.
Although I’m taller than you are, and short-waisted, I also have very broad shoulders and proportionally slimmer hips, so many of your tips with regard to those features are useful for me.
I love to travel so those posts are fun to read.
Most helpful:
Dressing Room Diaries is fun…I’ve purchased items spotted there.
I liked the recent three-word “style motto” article—very difficult to get to three words. My style is more bold, dramatic, boho (?something?) and a lot less tailored/classic/crisp than yours, but nevertheless, there is overlap in many areas and basic style principles apply, so that much of what I learn on your site is useful.
I very much enjoy checking in with the blog each day. Thank you for all the work that goes into it!
Thank you Andrea
1. I would describe the blog as both a fashion and personal growth blog for women at any age who like a more classic style.
2. As answered below, more real life outfit photos.
3. My favorite topic is ‘What I wore’. I think you have only done this a couple of times, but it’s nice to see you in real life.
4. Your real experiences with clothes, make up, food, books, etc.
I’ll try to share more of what I wear.
How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it? – Real woman wears real clothes!
What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content? One item worn multiple ways, combos, mixing & matching an item different ways. You cover it in dressing room diaries, but more curated options would be great.
What is your favorite topic that I do cover? – Dressing room shots, it’s so helpful to see someone who is my shape & size (& age) try things on. I live in a mountain town far from stores and can’t do my own try ons very often.
What type of post is the most helpful for you? Splurge v. save, Dressing room diaries, also anything about proportion or fit and and why it works or doesn’t.
Anything else you’d like to share? Great blog, I check it often.
Thank you, Laurrie
I so enjoy your emails! What I find the most helpful is when you explain why or why not an outfit works – I’ve learned so much. And, Dressing Room Diaries is a highlight.
Have you ever considered going to an independent boutique and talking about the accessories and how they can add a touch of “current” to our wardrobes? Keep up the good work!
I would say to a friend that this is a warm, nonjudgmental, friendly space for professional style advice for dressing casually if you are over 50, and do not miss the comments! I would like to see more athleisure outfits and combining athleisure with smarter pieces (your leggings article is my leggings style bible). My favorite posts are just what you put together for your lifestyle, especially restyling basics I’ve seen before. Most helpful are dressing room diaries, and fashion content where you explain why something works/doesn’t due to balance/shape/etc. honestly, if you didn’t change a thing, I’d still be reading :).
Thanks so much, Linda :). That leggings post is very popular.
I like the more classic look when you put an outfit together. Don’t get me wrong, I like jeans and the
thrown together look of today, too. But the classic always wins out in my book. Jackie Kennedy, Audrey Hepburn, are the styles I like…..simple and elegant effortless looking.
I can’t add much that hasn’t already been said. I love your blog! It’s my favorite read to start the day…something light & yet informative with regard to style & fashion. We have similar looks so I can relate to most of what you share. I also like some minimal skin care tips with these newer clean products on the market, as I have sensitive skin that reacts to almost everything. I love some diet/food tips that also affect skin. Finally we share aging issues that can be of great help to each other. I’m thinking of the eye vitamin recommended by a reader. I knew I didn’t care for capris on my short 5’2 body but wasn’t sure why. You explained the proportion aspect. Thank you so much! Please keep on keeping on…
Thank you so much. I need those eye vitamins, can you recall the brand?
Inspirations for an elevated casual way of life. I like your dressing room diaries, the save/splurge posts and the ones where you show us why something doesn’t work and the little tips/tricks you share. My favorite series was one you did on a vacation where you showed us how to wear the same pieces in a variety of ways for different activities. I like that you’re current and modern, aware of trends but don’t follow or promote fads. The occasional non-fashion topic: travel, book, movie, food, skin care is great and I’d enjoy more of those.
I love your first sentence, thank you! I’ll try more mixing and matching ideas for outfit flexibility.
An authentic source for real-life classic casual. You never try too hard and never make me feel like I’m missing out on something… whatever that is (lavish trips, expensive clothes, certain beauty products).
Love your “would you wear it” and “save or splurge”. Would like more of your styled explanations, like the contrast level, rules of thirds, ways to make things casual or dressy (like the mention of the denim color yesterday, or shoe choice). You have an easy, practical way of explaining concepts. Also appreciate your recognition of our physical limitations….knees will never wear heals again. That’s okay! Finding loafers very fun and trying to add more belts.
Q: Have you ever used Anson belts? I only wear silver buckles which are difficult to find. They offer (2) swappable silver buckles with a wide range of straps.
Thanks for your thoughts, Diane. I’m glad the style info is helpful. I’ll be including more. I’ve not heard of those belts. I’ll check into them.
I want to learn the principles about what clothes look best on a person.
I think color and shape may be most important. Clothes can be a backdrop to make jewelry the focus of the outfit.
As an older woman, I want comfort, quality, and longevity of the purchase.
Shopping is not fun …. So, I want a good looking wardrobe that needs minimal new purchases Year after year.
Thank you for your insightful comment, Carolyn. It’s very helpful.
I would describe your blog as , Classically casual with a sense of curiosity.
I like DRD, and Save/ splurge. It would be fun to see more examples of the four general color seasons in the same outfit. I also like the occasional book / video recommendation. Thanks for all your hard work, you are a fun fashion friend!
Thanks Eileen! Fashion is fun, as you know 🙂
Hi Jennifer,
1. How would you describe this blog to a friend who had never heard of it? I’d call it a blog for stylish women over 50 who are not slaves to fashion but want to look their best.
2. What are we not covering here that you’d like to see as part of future content? I’d love to read more about clothing items and accessories made from fabrics that are more sustainable to the planet vs. polyester and many other manmade fabrics.
3. What is your favorite topic that I do cover? “Tips and tricks” -type posts are my favorite. I also enjoy the spend vs. splurge posts very much.
4. What type of post is the most helpful for you? Your explanations of why something doesn’t look “right” (e.g., rule of thirds) due to proportion or color intensity.
5. Anything else you’d like to share? Thank you for doing this! I love starting my day reading about your finds and insights!
Thank you so much, Kelly! Your answers are so helpful.
I’d describe it as a great friend who shares, shares. And shares. You share advice on dressing well highlighting your own life, climate, travel needs. You share trends in stores and shops where you live abundant elsewhere. You share your needs and even some of your personal physical afflictions ( couldn’t find the word here…). I like that you’re open about your hair needs, your fingers/hand challenges as well as your skin.
I like the way you put this all together- the dressing room diaries is most fun! But I liked the pieces about you in Vancouver and Palm Desert and Mexico too!
You write from the heart.
Thank you Paulette. I’m certainly not a professional writer so I’m glad you’re enjoying the posts :).
I have been following you for a number of years and over that time my life has made dramatic changes from retiring to moving cross country but your content has remained relevant. I would describe your blog as a conversation amongst friends who want to stay current in today’s world. Fashion and looking my best has always been important to me and you have helped me stay the course while expanding my awareness of other retailers and products. I like DRD even though our bodies are very different. High inflation and a retirement income has me watching where I spend my dollars so I would like to see you address that topic. Keep up the good work Jennifer!
Great suggestions, thanks Linda. I’ll do that.
1. A Well Styled Life is a virtual friend who shares a great sense of style to help women like us to make wise wardrobe choices.
2. I am interested in reducing my consumption of new clothes to help the environment and build my savings. I will still purchase new items, but selectively. Along those lines, perhaps a feature of “Update This Outfit,” showing an outfit you featured in prior years updated with a piece or two to make it more contemporary. Or, a “One More Time” feature showing how you’ve updated an investment piece with contemporary choices.
3. You publish so many helpful ideas, hard to pick one. If forced, I’d say “Splurge or Save” is the most fun.
4. Your expertise in retail and the principles of dressing set you apart from some other bloggers. I really benefit from posts about best choices for body shape, contrast, color, etc. You tell us why something will look good on us. It’s what keeps me coming back.
5. Thank you. I published a professional blog for three years. Boy, it was A LOT of work. I appreciate that while your job is fun, it also takes many hours of time and constant attention.
Thank you so much for number 1! That’s very helpful, Susan.
Number 2 is filled with great ideas, love it.
Number 4, golden. Thank you so much and yes, it’s more than a full time job, as you know. What was your blog about?
I was a professor for a graduate class on personal learning and change. Wrote a blog to help keep me current on the topics.
The ideas in #2 are exactly what I would like to see also!
Me too … need ideas on how to update what I already have.
Everything SusanBK said…except #5! Especially love the “update this outfit”. Thanks for all your hard work, Jennifer.
# 4 . Is the reason I stopped reading some of the other fashion blogs- as I prefer to spend my time here.
I have a body that’s changing whether I like it or not. Hair, eyesight, vitamins, supplements, food sensitivities, exercise, good shoes, these subjects you cover help educate me and keep me informed. You are truly the virtual girl friend who discusses these topics that are really important to know about- and that’s how I’d describe your blog to others. Thank you.
1. Describe blog: age appropriate (in my 70s) but with classic style – great tips and tricks!
2. Not covering: more affordable clothing – Eileen Fisher is out of my retirement budget. I love seeing the high end items but it is not realistic for me and most of my retired professional “girls”. I am not a fan of skin care posts and don’t read those days but I know lots of ladies enjoy them.
3. I LOVE the tips and tricks (putting hem of a t-top through belt loop=brilliant!) and use lots of your tips. I have always wondered why I don’t like “pedal pushers” on most and now I know why thanks to your tip regarding them.
4. Like others I do like the dressing room diaries.
5. It has been a delight finding your blog – I appreciate your candor. I wonder if “boutique finds” or clothing options on line (other than the standards of Talbots, Chicos, JJill, etc.) would be a consideration for you. My wardrobe is inundated with Talbots and I have loved adding boutique tops, etc. but, again, many I find seemed to styled for my 3 grand girls ages 18, 20, and 22😂 – harder and harder to find unique, age appropriate items for Nana.
Thank you for allowing input!
That’s great, thanks Terry.
This is a difficult question to answer, because there are so many good things to say. Your blog is friendly, informative without being judgmental, encouraging, and relatable. The variety of topics keeps it fresh, and so do the great comments from other readers. It feels like a real community, which is lovely. I intend to tackle my closet next week, and it has me thinking (again) about how my look has changed. I think there is going to be a fairly big purge and I plan to look over some of your previous posts for guidance. I’m realizing what I used to love to wear has really shifted. Thanks for your column… I read it every day! 😊
I live in the UK so would first of all say it is a US fashion blog however the style advice and clothing photos are still relevant not just because everything crosses the pond eastward but also specific garments are increasingly available globally . The writing style of US blogs is always very approachable and this was one recommended by unefemme . I find blogs far more current and useful than fashion magazines but they cater to the same kind of readers and deal with the same subjects . My favourite feature is shared with another recommended blogger – ie “Would you wear it ?”
1. Thoughtful, creative, fashion-forward and health-conscious, non-judgmental, intelligent, instructional, and for me very inspirational!
2. No suggestions. I like that your emphasis is on fashion and styling. That being said, you introduced me to the benefits of collagen and products like Hair Biology, both are now part of my life. I like that I learn things here that I would not discover on my own, including clothing hacks.
3. I really don’t have a favorite. Sometimes a topic which I think won’t be of interest to me turns out to be informative and very helpful.
4. Presently, in a time of high inflation, “Splurge or Save” motivates me to create current and classic looks at online retailers like Amazon, TJMaxx and Marshalls, all of which carry many labels featured at more high-end stores.
5. Jennifer, you are so much more than an “influencer”. You are an “inspirer”, the highest rank in blogdom! xo
Thank you so much, Lynn. I’m delighted to hear I inspire!
Jennifer, you are my research assistant! I’m retired but am very active with 7 grandchildren… I go to T ball, swim meets, gymnastic meets, soccer games, plays and musical concerts that span outdoor temperatures from freezing to 100 degree weather. I don’t have time to discover all the trends and styles for myself, so your dressing room diaries, would you wear it, and tips on sales save me time and money. I confess I sometimes rely totally on what you’ve modeled even though I’m taller and older than you. Your posts give me reference and comparisons by offering a realistic photo instead of a professional model’s image. I’ve been exposed to stores I never considered before like walmart online and amazon (who knew?) I travel internationally twice a year and although I’ve literally been around the world, you travel wardrobe tips that include current and trending styles are so appreciated. Finally, since I live in the same area and shop the same stores–when you find something great and post it, I can be out the door in a flash to snatch it up!
I enjoy your column and find it inspiring every day. I would typically reach for the same old comfy pieces, your suggestions and professional advice prompt consideration to branch out and ‘think’ about putting an outfit together.
DRD are really helpful to see how different pieces work/do not work together, on a person of a certain age. Especially for those who don’t have time or access to some shops IRL. Very helpful to see we can still wear many current styles (I’ll be 60 next year—how did that happen?)
Color is a topic it would be nice to see a bit more of; do’s and definitely do-nots, why, etc. Love the brief personable touches from your life and family as well as the occasional non-clothing features.
Thanks for everything you do, and thanks for reading our comments!
I don’t always get to answer each one but I always read your comments! I learn so much from my readers. 🙂
Well, Jennifer here goes.
1. If I was describing your blog to someone I would say there is this this adorable lady who puts style, life ideas of how to live your best life and all kinds of information from books, makeup tricks, sales and how to be fabulous in our own bodies of (50 and above – younger gals could also benefit also).
2. What is not covered? Can not think of any specific topic, maybe life’s priorities- What is first in your life and moving down second, third and so on.
3. I love DRD. Look forward to it every week. Great inspiration for new styles.
4. What is most helpful to me is the “how to” hints on makeup, cleaning, accessorizing.
5. Off hand I can not think of anything else.
Thanks for all your research and ideas along with all the modeling. 😌
Thanks Lin!
Jennifer, I have described your blog to my daughter as a lifestyle and fashion blog for over 50’s but it is so much more than that. I look forward to reading it every day. I value the posts regarding makeup, skin care producsts and living a healthy, stylish life. I can’t think of any content that you are missing. I love seeing your outfits and the DRD are my favorite. You and I are not the same build, I am petite and carry a few more pounds than you, but I am inspired to try styles and colors I may not have in the past. I actually enjoy putting an outfit togther and put more effort into looking my best. I previously shopped a lot at Talbots from their petite range, but since reading your blog I have branched out to shopping at Chicos, JJIll and Nordstrom.
I’m so glad you’re branching out. It’s so easy for us to get stuck in a rut.
I love DRD as I live in a small town with one clothing store.You speak to the more mature women of which I most definitely am. I like that you want to look modern but are not trying to make us smell look 20 again. Keep up the good work.
Youthful and modern, never 20! :). Thanks Cheryll
I really enjoy your blog and your willingness to share the ups and downs of life with a positive outlook.
Based on comments below, and when the pandemic time is right, maybe occasionally shopping with a friend of another body shape might be cool. You could show what to look for in terms of shaping and length etc. Even little details can make a difference based on our various physiques.
Thanks for your great work!
Thanks Laurie!
I would describe your blog as a stylish fashion and lifestyle blog for the more mature, but classic, woman.
I would love to see more picks for basics that you believe will last over several seasons. I am trying to make fewer, more sustainable purchases. Avoiding throwaway fashion, so that may mean spending more initially but ultimately paying less per wear. So if you have any suggestions for sustainable clothing companies, I am all in!
I like the DRD, because they show what the pieces look like in real life. I don’t have the same body as you but I find those posts very helpful, because it gives me a sense if I could pull off a certain look. I also enjoy your collaborations with other bloggers. And I enjoy your Monday musings….just because. Thanks for all of your hard work! It can’t be easy doing this every week, and I do appreciate it. You bring a bit of normalcy and fun to these times.
Thanks Melissa. I’m wanting more sustainable choices too so I’ll be talking about that more
I tell my friends that this is the best old lady fashion blog around. I like almost all of your content. I am a Talbots/Chicos shopper, but your column has extended my fashion sense to many other stores like Banana Republic and definitely Nordstrom. I like the dressing room diaries, although sometimes I think they get a little monotonous. I also do things like use your sunscreen regime, although I’d have to say my least favorites are some of your cosmetics/creams entries. I would concur with lower-cost clothing, but I like to consider the high cost stuff, too. I could not look more unlike you, but it is sometimes a little scary how frequently I see something you feature and then I go out and purchase it myself. I am a meat eater, so I would not be too keen on recipes.
Awesome! I love being an old lady fashion blogger 🙂 I’m glad you’ve been inspired to branch out. It’s easy to get stuck in a rut.
Reading your blog is like getting tips from a stylish friend.
You bring us timely, up-to-date styles and info that are still relevant to those of us in the over-60 category. The only thing I’d like to see more of is colors in my autumn palette. Your last post had a nice group from Talbot’s, but I rarely see colors I can wear on the blog.
Favorite topic might be when you show a current trend and how we can add just a bit, without looking like we’re trying to be 20.
Dressing Room Diaries are helpful to see the clothes on you. I am built like you, just two inches taller, so seeing them on you is great.
Thanks so much for all the hard work you put into bringing us such good information.
Thanks, Barbara.
Oh my, how do I describe my relationship to this blog! This whole aging process is a new adventure for all of us. I don’t want to be consumed with all the negative aspects of this journey but also, I want to face this time with my eyes wide open. When I found your blog, it’s been like a new, wonderful friend who shares so many of my very personal concerns. I have learned so much! It’s also the community of friends that I feel has helped me keep a sense of humor rather than tears of frustration and sadness.
I don’t get out to all the stores to do try on sessions, so your blogs that feature what’s new are so helpful. I also love to hear what you’re trying that’s new for skin care or hair products that are working for you too.
I just started taking a vitamin for eye care. My optometrist said that I have early stages of muscular degeneration in one eye and “wrinkling” in the other eye.
Omg, is there no end to this whole wrinkling process!? 😂
I love starting my day with your blog and it leaves me with a bit more energy to make the most of each new day! Thank you!
I’m so sorry to hear about your eyes, Jan. Is the “wrinkling” the outer layer beginning to sag and fold? I have that now too!
Apparently, the wrinkling is in the internal eye tissue. The vitamin supplement that she recommended is PreserVision Areds 2.
Thank you so much! I shall order some.
I am your same height and wear a size 10 – 12 and what is frustrating about that height, especially when ordering, is whether to order a regular or petite size, which can result in returns. Learning more about proportions would be greatly appreciated. I would like to see more DRD at Banana Republic, and other retailers. I have to be very selective when ordering from Talbots or Chico’s clothing…not much works for me.
You do a good job
with all your blogs, my least favorite is “would you wear it.” I find “Splurge or Save” is interesting, and helpful. Apparently, I missed the post on the eye vitamin. I have the beginning stages of Macular. You are great at sharing your knowledge with us. I hope all these words of encouragement is helpful.
I follower several fashion bloggers and you are one of my favorites! I like to see what is on trend and where to find it, as I do most of my shopping online. Dressing Room Diaries is my favorite feature and very helpful. Splurge or Save is also fun!
Thanks Janie
A well styled life would be living within you means also purchasing what you can afford and not going into debt to finance a lifestyle.
I would like to see more affordable clothing some choice are way out of my price range. I purchase the majority of my clothing from Talbots. I usually wait for a discount. Talbot has quality and modern style.
I do the dressing room pictures and that is my favorite topic. I do like when you describe the fit and size range.
I would like to see more reasonable prices cosmetics even though I do buy quality skin care and make up.
The splurge and save are good too.
My take is that I do not want to dress like an old lady. Classic but modern.
I am finding it hard to find dresses I like. I like sheath dresses that skim my body. The last two I purchase were from WHBM. I go for simple design on my 5’2″ 124 pound curvy body.
I really do like your posts a lot.
Dresses are going through a more is more phase these days, aren’t they?! Thanks for reminding me about WHBM.
I look forward to the dressing room diaries! I like seeing you in the clothing and getting your viewpoint of the garments. Keep those coming.
Will do, thanks Vicki
Fashion fun, styling and lessons for the mature woman. I enjoy your DRD – it lets me see clothes from my favorite stores on a real person, not a 5’10” size 00 fashion model! I appreciate your sharing of years of knowledge.
Oh to be 5’10”! 🙂
Good morning Jennifer! I would describe your blog as relevant to my current lifestyle and age. I find so many tips and clothing choices from your blog and the responses other ladies give. My two favorite types of posts are splurge vs save and especially would you wear it. I just love reading how other ladies would style clothing it’s fun.
Thanks, Leslie. I was wondering if it’s time to retire would you wear it.
“Would You Wear It” is my least favorite section … just for your information.
I would describe your blog as the intelligent women’s fashion blog. You always cover interesting and educational topics and you don’t overwhelm us with 10 photos of the same outfit or write in a style that treats us like we have no attention span.
I enjoy DRD and any articles that teach us something about style or colour. Your background as a style consultant is obvious in what you write about.
And reading your articles and the reader comments feels like having a conversation with a good friend.
That’s good to know, thanks. I often wonder if I say too much :). I always look forward to reading your comments, Yvonne.
I enjoy your expertise on how to dress women so they look their best. Like the 1/3 2/3 rule. It might be a suggestion to you, but I use it as a rule. And crops make legs appear shorter. More please! As a professional, I’m sure you’ve picked up so many things that the average person doesn’t know or doesn’t know how to implement. When you’re in side by side pictures, showing different ways of wearing similar outfits, it’s so obvious what a styling “rule” means. More please.
I’ll keep the proportion posts coming! They’re some of my favorites
My favorite posts you do are when you show pictures of an outfit that doesn’t work and then tell us in detail WHY it doesn’t work. I find the mechanics of an outfit fascinating.
Good to know! I’ll share more of those.
There are a few occasions where I need to wear something dressy. I am finding it more and more difficult to find appropriate clothing that is dressy enough. I shop at my local Nordstrom store, but find most of their dressy clothing is too young looking. Macy’s the same way.