Meaningful Clothes
There’s no doubt about it, life is tough these days. Even and especially if you’re staying home every day. There’s a sameness that drags on which can sap the joy from the most positive among us. We’re told we need to keep busy, get things done and keep our spirits up. But the truth is, we can’t always do that.
I vacillate between weepy and frustrated many days with no rhyme or reason and find myself wishing, again, that this at-home exile will end. I pretty much dress the same as I always did (except footwear), which goes a long way toward making life feel normal. But I need more.
Then I read a comment from a reader that struck a chord, reminding me of the power we have hanging in our closet! Deborah is digging deep into the back of her closet to unearth those clothes that she wore during happier times. Those pieces with history that hold happy memories.
It got me thinking about the women who may be dressing down each day because apathy has them wondering why they should bother to make an effort.
It can be very soothing to wear a garment that you wore during happier times. The skirt you wore to meet a girlfriend for lunch and a day of window shopping. That pretty sweater you wore for a casual date night. The kaftan you wore on a tropical holiday. And on and on…
Where are those well-loved pieces that you’ve put away to wear “when this is all over”? What could be hiding in the recesses of your closet?
Style Tip- Stop Saving Your Good Clothes for Later
Try taking a few out. Heck, toss on that scarf you bought in the museum during a fabulous trip that you’re afraid to wear because it might be ruined. There is no better time than the present to use your clothes and accessories to lift your spirits. Let your clothes work for you. Give them the chance to make you feel uplifted.
What’s languishing in your closet that should come out to be worn?
Wear what makes you feel good about yourself. I’m bringing mine out because, why not?
xo
I really wanted to make my spendy silk scarves that I rarely wear into masks but apparently silk is not a great material for that. I thought they’d be chic and practical. I have tried to order some more fashionable masks. It’s a silly thing but anything that lifts one’s spirits these days can’t be judged. Stay well. Xx
Since I no longer have a bathing suit (burned up) and I have a pool at the new house, I decided to order a suit online. I have no idea how that is going to work, but I can’t go to the store and try one on. I’m hopeful my guessing at size will work. It’s suddenly hot in southern California, and I’m jealous of my grandsons who are out there splashing and having fun. (I count my blessings every day that I am here with them during this looooonnnggg thing.)
Counting the blessings we do have is the best way to get through this thing
And hope you have given us!!!!
Thank you so much!
When every day seems like the one b4
We read of others & see the light!!
Love to all !! Hold on! We’re good!
And we can do this & come out better…
Hello Jennifer. I’m doing the opposite and loving it! I am spending my days in drop-crotch jersey pants or sweatpants with t-shirts and slip-on Ecco white or black sneakers. I’ve been giving my skin a break from makeup and using serums and moisturisers. I’m working from home, and only getting into smart clothes to attend my virtual online meetings. I’m looking forward to coming out of lockdown here in NZ, and am only now eyeing up my other clothing options. Keep safe, and do what you need to keep your spirits up, best regards from New Zealand.
I bet your skin is loving that! Stay safe
what a great idea – in fact, I need to clean out my closet and have been loathe to do it but this is a chance to try on my clothes and mix and match things I might have been too shy to try. Ultimately I can get rid of things that just do not look good or feel good.
I came up with a bag of those kind of clothes last week. They’re just waiting for things to open up to be donated.
I think it’s time to start dressing for dinner, like the residents of Downton Abbey. Well, maybe not dressing quite like that, but kicking it up a notch.
I love that idea
I love that idea too!
I’m still avoiding wearing anything black. I have been shopping online and have purchased several pink tops and a pink purse. Somehow, I’ve latched on to a color I’ve never worn before and it gives me hope and happiness. We missed a European cruise and I’ve been wearing all the new clothes I would have been wearing to drive thru dates in parking lots. I also have been making chocolate covered strawberries and having them in my “happy outfits” for a “happy hour” with my husband. This is a time we will remember so I’m injecting some good memories as well!
Very wise of you. We will all remember this for a very long time
I wear the same thing when I go to the grocery store, jeans, something long-sleeved and the same pair of shoes, which I take off and don’t wear in the house. No jewelry, not even my watch as that would be just one more thing to have to wipe down once I get home. Mask, of course. I have noticed people are not really even looking at each other in the store, just want to get in and get out! I agree with a previous poster, fun clothes are my spring/summer clothes. Last week I did put the winter sweaters, etc. away since it is getting warmer now. We had a big vacation to Europe planned for July and I would have been making lists and getting excited at this point. It’s disappointing but I know other people who are dealing with so much worse. Many days when I watch the news I cry. This is purely awful. I am 70 and from what I understand, those of us in the vulnerable group will be asked to social distance for quite a while to come.
I’m so sorry to hear about your vacation plans. Hopefully, it will be safe by the summer
I think this us such a great idea. And I’d be a lot more in favor if the first thing I did wasn’t a disaster. I put on my favorite denim shirt, which is heavy weight, added my fav striped tee under it and promptly forgot what I was wearing and dropped red taco grease down my front. Then I used a stain stick which left a lighter spot than shirt. So, while I highly recommend dressing in your favorites, don’t be like me. Forgot that mustard hot dog. LOL
Oops…or remember a large apron